i dont wanna live anymore?

Question

i really just want to leave everything... my ex boyfriend has a new girlfirend and i cant find anybody.. apparently im just a huge loser who cant do anythimg or achieve anything... i should of killed myself last summer when i got dismissed from the university last summer. no one cares about me not even my closest friends care about me..

Answer 1

get your self a copy of world of warcraft

Answer 2

If no one care about you you would not have close friends. Why did you get dismissed from school? Why do you care if your EX has a new person in there life or not? Sit down and make a list of ways your life is not what you want it to be and why then fix it. Don't take the easy way out because things seem a little tough right now. Seek help form a professional.

Answer 3

Just when you think it cant get any worse, it seems too sometimes doesnt it? What you need to know it also gets better. Losing your boyfriend is not the end of the world, neither is leaving the university. Actually the worst thing that could happen to you is ending your life. WHat you have to do now is find purpose and hope. You can look inside and try to motivate yourself to do better, you can get professional help, you can turn to God and seek out His plan for your life. Or The best thing to do, is to do all three. THere are many ways to get motivated in life and keep going, you can't give up. And you can always find friends online...Keep your chin up

Answer 4

Get over it! We're all replaceable, girlfriend! You know what u need 2 do? Find some satisfaction in yourself. Get a hobby. Find something u like 2 do or something you're good at.
Do you know who cares about you? YOU DO!!! That's all that matters!
If they're truely your friends, they'd care. If they don't (and if you're not just another bleeding heart) then find some new friends. They're replaceable.
Apparently you're not ready for school either. Go back when you're ready to LEARN something for yourself and not just wanting to pass the time till "Mr. Right" comes along. You'll be very disappointed, sister.
Seriously, nothing is worth cashing in everything. You are your own saviour. Stop wasting your time. Make your own happiness ... and tell everyone else to eat sh*t!

Answer 5

I know you feel really bad right now. It's natural to generalize and say that you can't do "anything". I'm sure if you think about it, there ARE some things you can do well.

College wasn't for you, but it isn't for most people frankly. (Even some of the people who stick it out and graduate should have quit their first year.)

I remember hearing a survey of people who survived jumping off the Golden Gate Bridge. Every one of them had an epiphany about 2/3 of the way down. The epiphany was that their problems really weren't that bad compared to dying. What the numbers are for the people who "succeeded", we'll never know. Hold on for a while longer. You might check out the attached link.

E-mail me if you'd like to talk.

Answer 6

This surely is a twisted situation. What you really need to switch off from all these thoughts you are having. The best you can do in such situations is to do something you really enjoy doing. It could be playing a game of bowling or swimming or having a night out. I

t could even be some kind of spiritual activity or going to some oldage home and helping people out there. This will help you in regaining your confidence when you help someone out and moreover you'll realise that there are others who have much more complex problems to face than us!!! Ad then you can plan on how to resolve the problems you are facing currently and i ma sure things will start falling in place.
Good Luck!! :)

Answer 7

Sweetheart, where there is life there is hope. Do you believe in God? You know if you commit suicide, you automatically go to hell. You reckon it's hard here. It's a walk in the park here, but hell will be full of turmoil, pain and anguish for all of eternity.
You know love, hope is awesome, it will pick you up and make you carry on. Who knows what tomorrow will bring, the best thing that ever happened to you could come into your life tomorrow, but if your dead you will never know the joy of that feeling.
Go have a look at your self in the mirror, have a talk to yourself, tell yourself your situation will "NOT get you down anymore, your NOT a loser and you CAN achieve huge things, you were able to write your blog here, You have an education. did you know there are millions of people all over the world unable to read and write?
Come on, get up off that pity chair your on and make a success out of your life, YOU CAN DO IT, THE POWER IS IN YOU. ASK GOD TO HELP YOU, HE WILL!

Answer 8

Have you actually told your close friends that you feel like this. I think you need to tell them, no one is a mind reader and they might not know that you are feeling these thoughts. You really need to tell them, and I am sure they will listen to you. Just look at all the responses you have got from your message, there are at least 17 people here, who may be stranger now, but could be friends you just haven't meet yet.
I hope you feel better really soon, and sod the loser that has a new girlfriend his loss not yours. :)

Answer 9

every girl goes thru this at some point, believe me!
dont let it get u down, and i wud really hope that u do not evaluate urself by the number of boys that you can find ..
use the oppurtunity .. the free time .. to do things that r rather constructive.. make loads of friends!
people have a tendency to think noone loves them when theyre down, just plain massochism..
ure the only thing u need to be happy, so buck it up n get back on ur feet.. make the ppl u think dont care abt u kno that u r a winner!

Answer 10

No one cares about you than yourself. Please ask yourself wheter you love yourself or not?. What you do to love yourself. Life is long journey with the pleasant and unpleasant. Look around the world there are people who are in more deep problem than you. Aren't those people still alive??They have hope that something will come in future. The hope that makes them to live on. Don't worry I know its very painful but you will be a better person tomorrow. Find happiness within you than you will be happy anywhere or anyhow???

Answer 11

I flunked out of the first college I went to and was kicked out of the second. Spent 2 years in the Army (nobody fighting then), ultimately getting a job (never did graduate from college). Have met many people with similar stories. Have also met people who gave up on life and decided there were more things they couldn't do. Your life will be what you make of it. You are free to project on the canvass of your life your dreams as well as your nightmares. It is your choice what you see...because you see what you want to see. If you see a life of failure, that is what you will have. You do have the option, however, to see a life of happiness and love. It is there, waiting for you. Look, you'll see it. Go for it. It's fun.