but personally is being different bad ??
i mean i love any for of art ....singing, dancing,writing etc.....i am the editor of our school newspaper. i write almost all our school musicals ...choreograph them and write the songs.
i even run a job in a music shop called 'Music World' and I am a part Of ' Stagefright Productions' ..a major group. I am also the captain of our school basketball team though i am a girl and wayunderage. i am a freshman.
but all my friends except one just ignore my fame and popularity and that hurts me and puts me down a lot.
i dont know what to do ?
am i obnoxious ? is being different bad....????
2007-04-16 20:25:53 · 15 answers · asked by Goofball Chucha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
maybe your friends are jealous... or ur obnoxious, i really dont know. but you seem like a nice person. Theres nothing wrong with being different, being different is what makes the world such a wonderful place. SO embrace your differences and if your friends cant embrace them, then they never really were your friends in the first place.
2007-04-16 20:32:37 · answer #1 · answered by Fabregas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being different is awesome!! I wish more people could just be different and not so much the "same" as everyone else. Your friends are probably just jealous that you have achieved soooo much. Wow, you are really doing a lot of things, and also considering that you are only a freshman. If your friends are hurting you so much, have you ever considered maybe talking to them about how you feel or, if all else fails, finding a new group that appreciates you?
2007-04-17 03:30:50 · answer #2 · answered by bubble wrapping 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think sometimes people are jealous of your sucess. as long as you're not talking about it all the time and bragging, they've got no reason to put you down, but remember just because they're not worshipping you that doesn't mean they don't admire you, most people who admire you don't say so either...if they're being mean, just ignore them, but if they're simply not making a big deal of it, don't worry about it. I'm also considered very successful for my age, i'm a teenager and i run my own business (fulltime, ) as well as having no family around and dealing with a major traffic accident injury i got a couple years ago, and people don't really say too much to me either, except the oldies, they're always saying how cool i am, but i find your own peers don't usually say very much, it's just the way it is, what's important is if you feel you're a pretty cool person and have achieved a lot, then pat yourself on the back, you deserve it, but try not to worry too much about what everyone else thinks of you.
unless they're especially the selfless typethat likes to encourage others, i wouldn't expect them to say too much.
2007-04-17 03:32:29 · answer #3 · answered by Melly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what if they ignore your popolarity and fame? Your not obnoxious and being different if definatly not bad! Even though you may be much more popular than your friends, so be it! That doesn't mean you have to feel bad for being better than them! You are extremly artistic and do you think that you should feel bad about that? If those "friends" of yours should be happy they have such a popular friend. Face it, they're jealous. Who wouldn't be??
2007-04-17 03:34:36 · answer #4 · answered by koey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! You're too cool, but if you ACT like you're really cool in front of your friends, that would be why they try to ignore your accomplishments. Make sure you don't act like you're better than everyone else! If you are just being sweet and kind and normal to your friends, then if they don't treat you nice, then you should start searching for a few new friends. Good Luck, and you're a real "Go getter". I hope you're famous one day!
2007-04-17 03:36:28 · answer #5 · answered by Elle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not let this friend join you in some activity. Ask this friend some advice in some activity. Like how or what is the best way to approach this problem. Just make this friend feel part of the group or your inner circle.
2007-04-17 03:35:10 · answer #6 · answered by Sun Valley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that you worked hard to get where you are but having the attitude of "Hey everyobody stop and look at me" is not going to make you very popular. Cant you just feel good about your accomplishments without everyone having to praise you all the time?
About being different..........theres atleast one of you in every school.
2007-04-17 03:32:01 · answer #7 · answered by jacklyn_denise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being different. You should be proud of what it is that you do and are good at. Just keep doing what makes you happy, and you will attract friends that are happy FOR you, and not jealous. On the flip side, make sure that you aren't making your friends feel that you think you're better than they are. Be proud of yourself and your accomplishments, just make sure that your friends know that you are proud of them and their accomplishments too.
2007-04-17 03:37:24 · answer #8 · answered by LoVeLy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Goofball, you are whatever you want to be.. Begin by learning to love yourself, to accept yourself without judgment. Just as you are. If you can learn to love yourself then you will find that the opinions of others won't matter...you know who and what you are. If you feel the need to get supporting opinions from others in order to validate yourself, it's because you haven't learned to accept yourself. If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you? So, love yourself, be comfortable with yourself...and others will admire you and look up to you. You are great, wonderful and the most important person in your universe.
2007-04-17 03:42:26 · answer #9 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but expecting or hunting for praise is not praiseworthy. Try a little modesty, and keep doing what you are doing, and you will certainly get noticed. Don't rub it in, or your friends will leave.
Chill.
2007-04-17 03:31:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋