Hi Friends,
Please give me your advises how to deal with a husband who treat me like this he left me and kids at home and travel with his friends (I don't know who his friends male or female) for 10 days without telling me until he's on airplane and called me that he's traveling. He explained if he let me know ahead I won't let he go that's why he's wait until he's on airplane. Is it a good excuse? I'm a working mom and has to take care kids for 10 days. What should I do when he come back?
I feel very sad to be treated like this way. ;((
2007-04-16 17:58:07 · 7 answers · asked by kkvv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Grandma would have used a short sheet and a rolling pin....
When he gets back let him know in no uncertain terms what you expect!!
2007-04-16 18:07:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must really want him in your life to let him pull something like that. If he gets away with it once, it will have again, if not more often than you'd expect. What type of husband is he to disrespect you like this? He should have Hell to pay for acting like your feeling don't matter and he'll come back acting humble to get forgiveness so he can do it again. It's up to you to decide on what you want for you and your kids in a marriage. Don't give up your life for someone who's not worth it.
2007-04-17 01:05:46 · answer #2 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he comes back, question the shitt out of him. Be like, who did you go with. what did you do, and don't raise your voice. Tell him that you love him if you genually do and if he says he does as well, then give him a hug and kiss, and start over, don't divorce unless you are sure about what he did was totally wrong.
2007-04-17 03:36:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since he is your husband, you can either divorce him or forgive him.
After all this behavior isn't new for him, and you knew this before you married him. So you gave up any right to complain when you agreed to marry him.
2007-04-17 01:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have all of his stuff on the front lawn when he got home and the locks changed. He needs to grow up!
2007-04-17 01:11:43 · answer #5 · answered by chunkysmom3502 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's not a stubborn husband, that is a selfish, immature, thoughtless, inconsiderate husband; and I wouldn't stand for it!
2007-04-17 01:02:16 · answer #6 · answered by abc 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
File for divorce while he is away..
2007-04-17 01:12:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋