my soon to be exhusband told me he has been having sexual dreams about me latley. do you think these dreams are just sexual or is it something else and if so what?
we had great sexual chemistry and a great relationship up unitl I got pregnant and it all went down hill from there. we have been seperated for 4 months now.
2007-04-16 17:57:13 · 9 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is a good one. He tells you(remember you don't actually know if he is dreaming this or not) that he is having sexual fantasies. This is to try and get you to feel the same way as he does - horny.
2007-04-16 19:07:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he's a Moron....
Might be easier to give you a better answer if you gave a bit more detail about why your relationship took a downward spiral with your pregnancy.
There is SO much more to a great relationship than sex...
A great relationship outside the bedroom naturally makes for a great relationship in the bedroom.
It's not like there's some "trick" to it...
2007-04-17 01:04:13 · answer #2 · answered by ~Me~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong? He doesn't want kids? Or you got pregnant from someone else?
Well it sounds like he's only thinking about you sexually.
Ask him if he ever thinks about you two getting back together and if he misses you ( not sexually ). If he does miss you ask him what he misses about your relationship. If you think his answers are valid enough it's safe to assume it's not just sexual.
2007-04-17 01:03:43 · answer #3 · answered by kickstatus101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure he has dreams of you...of you the way you WERE before you "messed everything up" by getting pregnant! I would not be flattered by this, in fact, I would be pissed off he was even telling me!!! No doubt he misses the way things were, but to tell you about it is kind of sick. Tell dude to keep his dreams where they belong - - in his head. Neither of you can go back and change anything, so it might be wise to move on and stop looking back.
2007-04-17 01:03:40 · answer #4 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you want to read something in to this. I don't know how he feels, but if he told you this, it sounds like he is trying to connect. If you think you can fix things, and you want to fix things, why not give it a shot. But just try to go by reality, and not your hopes.
2007-04-17 01:26:29 · answer #5 · answered by knuckleheadmcspazmatron 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be that he still has feeling for you, it only been a couple
of months since you parted. so may be that a sign to try to
work it out if you can. especially since there a child in the
picture.
2007-04-17 01:01:57 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows about dreams. They usually mean nothing.
2007-04-17 01:00:37 · answer #7 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the cause of your separation. Anyway, if you two can patch up, nothing like it.
Good luck and God bless.
2007-04-17 01:09:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just horny...
2007-04-17 01:12:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋