2007-04-16 14:46:08 · 47 answers · asked by candie 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
what you need to ask yourself is...
what does your husband do when she does this????
does he quickly move away or does he let it happen?
if he moves away then foregt it... he's on in and not letting it happen... let him know you noticed and that you're proud of him moving away...
if he's just standing there letting it happen then something is up or he's wanting something to be going on with her...
he is the one you need to be confronting... he's your husband and should be preventing it from happening.
2007-04-16 14:57:52 · answer #1 · answered by HB 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The first question should be - how does she treat other men? Some women are very touchy feely, and if she does this to a lot of men it may mean nothing. Similarly there are women who's entire focus is on men, and so she may not be ignoring you per se, that's just how she treats other women.
The only way to tell is by watching her and your husband together. Does he seek her out as well? Does he turn his body towards her? Or is he facing more towards you? Does he return her attention, or is he trying not to offend while offering no encouragement? Does he seem to encourage her or is he looking like he wants out? Do you feel that he is giving you the "cold shoulder" or is that directed to her? How close do they stand to each other, and who closed the gap?
I know now what to look for because my husband did cheat and if I'd been watching the body language, I would have been wiser much earlier.
How are things outside of this event? Do you/did you have reason to suspect before? Do you feel things between your husband and yourself had changed? What is the connection between them? Do they work together, or are you in the same social group? There are a lot of questions which only you can answer.
Maybe you can just ask him.
2007-04-16 15:05:33 · answer #2 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think your husband may see it as innocent conversation.... but I would let the woman know I would appreciate her keeping her hands to herself and off my husband. You shouldn't suspect because if there were something going on... it wouldn't be in your face it would be behind your back. The lady may just be friendly but she needs to have respect for a man's wife and family values. She pretty much has to know it is a problem to you. I am sure your husband is not the first she has done it to. She better beware. Some women aren't so subtle when it comes to the threat of another woman touching their husband.
2007-04-24 13:19:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! This Lady is no Lady. If I were you,I will stand between her and my husband all the time,and talk my head off to her. If my husband complained that I am rude,my line will be> How would you feel if I am talking to her man close and touching his hands?
2007-04-24 14:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by Vannili 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he notices, it's the ones who ignore him out of guilt that you no something is going on, but don't let over friendlieness develop, confront her and tell her, let your husband know first so he does'nt feel humilated and if he supports you maybe get him to take her hand off take a step back and say sorry I can't continue this conversation if your going to be so foward? Something has to happen!
2007-04-23 15:53:29 · answer #5 · answered by just_looking thanx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be irritated. If you don't want to say something outright, the next time she does it, put your arm through his and tell her that while it's been nice chatting, the 2 of you really must go now...and lay your head on his shoulder while you walk away. She's probably only doing it for attention, anyways. I think if you trust your husband, don't worry about it. If you don't trust your husband, get a divorce.
:o)
2007-04-23 19:47:11 · answer #6 · answered by dmarie2101 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your husband about this...let him know you dont feel comfortable with the situation and ask him to back away from any physical contact and include you in the conversation. If that dosent work then kick both of thier A**es!!
2007-04-24 06:23:31 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Pacific 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may be nothing, but weather it is or not, she is showing you no respect. i would say something to your husband or if you have the courage to her. If you feel uncomfortable, then let her know. He is your husband, and she needs to respect that. If your not sure, just be polite about it or make a joke of it. Then she will be aware of your discomfort.n If she does it on purpose then, you have the right to say something seriously
2007-04-23 21:21:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she do it to any1 else? I mean maybe that's just the way she is. If you don't like it tell her or tell ur husband to put his hands in his pockets when she comes to talk to him. OR!! take his hand and put 1 on your butt and the other on ur boob! so they are both taken and maybe she will feel as uncomfortable as u do when she touches his hand. ha!ha! I'm sorry that wasn't very nice, ha!
2007-04-16 14:58:35 · answer #9 · answered by same girl/new name :) 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Suspect? Just walk between them, take your husbands hand and tell her nicely that she really needs to keep her hands to herself and it was good seeing her but you two have someplace you need to be. Away from her. lol
2007-04-24 14:14:32 · answer #10 · answered by funrpc 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I wouldn't suspect anything because if there was something going on....she'd be trying to keep her distance in front of you.
Sounds like she's a wanna be...........
wants ta be you
*and don't be mad at hubby,
he probably doesn't know how to handle her
2007-04-16 15:05:37 · answer #11 · answered by Moma 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋