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Why is it always the same thing all of the time? The same attitude from co-workers, the same opinions in the world, the same treatment from others, but no stability really. Nothing changes and there is no settling into things either.

2007-04-16 13:06:58 · 13 answers · asked by chicky 2 in Social Science Psychology

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True change whatever change that may be, will only happen when a very proactive and often difficult task is undertaken by at least one person. Although sometimes a large group of people is necessary, this depends upon the complexity of whatever the situation you need to change is. You find that a very common law, often found in physics can also be applied to human behavior. The law that I am referring to is often used for fluid and electricity, and it states that most often it will follow the path of least resistance, and you can see humans follow this law also the majority of the time. Sometimes this can be useful for us to follow the path of least resistance for the short term, so we have enough energy to take care of our most primal needs such as food shelter etc. . This approach may also be very harmful in the long term as this is when individuals and even large groups of people are taken advantage of. As this is a very predictable trait among humans someone planning, can predict that when faced with high resistance in one way a person are persons will choose to go the other way if a path of lesser resistance is offered and if at the end of this path is a snare then they're trapped. Swindlers and cons know these rules all to well and use them to there advantage. In some cases throughout history leaders have used this to control large groups of people example Hilter and the Jews, the jewish people did what they felt was the sensible thing and by all sane thought it was the sensible thing and they opted for a hopefully peaceful solution by surrendering and complying to the demands of thier oposer and found that a deviously planned and horrible snare awaited them at the end of thier path. So maybe the the next time we turn are heads and walk away maybe we should stop and take a moment to reflect if the easy way is the right way, are also the next time someone says that's just the way it is maybe we should say WHY IS THAT!!!!

2007-04-16 14:02:13 · answer #1 · answered by Hey Moe 4 · 1 0

Se la vi, and on it goes. "To build a better world is such a simple thing to do, to build a better world you simply build a better you."

This quote used to work very well for me in younger years, but as time goes by you find that what you are saying is absolutely true. Even if we are able to change our perception of 'what is' it would still be and therefore we have accomplished what we could have accomplished in the first place. BUT, never let that deter you from life. You will have excellent times and great times, aswell as so-so, and mediocre. It is really up to how much work you put into things. And, most importantly, if you are making your own decisions. For some reason that plays the biggest part. Having your own two cents about your life will make all things worth while. You have done nothing but train until now, yu might aswell test your skills. If you fail, who the heck cares, at least you know your limits...and from here you can decide to keep training, until you are ready, or partake in a different venture.

So is the life.

2007-04-16 20:15:10 · answer #2 · answered by Heero Yui 3 · 1 0

Starting tomorrow is when life as you know will change, that is the only information I can give you my friend. But if you really want something to change, you have to do it, and change yourself, doing so will effect things around you. That is what change is. But I agree with you humans, I'm tired of a boring life and so starting now I'm going to make myself stronger to change the world, I swear it. And you can too, if anyone out there needs to become strong we might end up meeting each other. Until then, enjoy the life you have now, and prepare for a free world. Project 2015 is underway.

2014-10-15 05:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by Jacob 1 · 0 0

The world as a whole is in turmoil at this time. You can date the rapid change to the renasaunce.in europe in the 1700s. about the time that the New World was rediscovered.

For fifteen hundred years at that time the church told you what to think and then along comes all these free thinkers that have real living proof that the church has been lieing to us all from the begining.

And on top of all this the eirth is going through a drastic magnetic upheavel that will totaly change the way we live for the fourth time in human memory.

We as a race are not 6000 years old.
There has been humans walking on this ball of dust from time beyound end.

The Church on the other hand is only just begun.
6000 years for the Jews 2000 for the Christians, 500 for the followers of Mohomid and less for the Prespatarin.

The Mothers Children have been here for ten thousand years at least.

Think about it.

2007-04-16 20:26:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Things are changing all around you. You are just not noticing it. In fact, things are changing so fast, some of us have hard time adapting. In a small scale though, like in a closed office, things may appear sedentary.

However, you seem to be very passive and expecting others to change while you stay the same. It doesn't work that way. If you want people to change, you change.

You change your attitude toward your coworkers, their attitude toward you will change. If you always looked at your world one way, try looking at it from different angle. If you want to be treated differently from others, you treat others differently.

Everything change.... and that is the only thing that is constant.

2007-04-16 20:21:01 · answer #5 · answered by tkquestion 7 · 0 0

Such is life. I see what you are talking about...no one changes...They talk about the same things everyday...everyone is just going through the motions. I suggest you go out with friends & have a good time because when you go back to work you get to hear & see those same people you are talking about. Enjoy life someone has too. Learn to block these people out. .Don't let them bring you down. Be YOU.

2007-04-16 20:19:50 · answer #6 · answered by simplesimon 5 · 1 0

Nope.. things will never change.. and that is why we all have to. But we never will. Sad isn't it.. the world is a madhouse.. and we are all looking more and more like clowns :)
Buy some land in remote Montana .. put 40 years worth of canned veggies and rice on the shelves of a shack and live like they did in the 1700's .. that is how I plan to change... someday :)
I will quit.. the world will win.. and I could care less.

2007-04-16 20:15:15 · answer #7 · answered by lost_but_not_hopeless 5 · 0 1

attitudes are always changing. throughout history, there is a trend toward more liberal attitudes. Like Heraclitus said, everything flows. therefore, we can never settle into anything because once we are about settled, it changes again.

2007-04-16 20:17:45 · answer #8 · answered by Erebus 3 · 0 1

You need to initiate the change, not just wait for it to happen. Put yourself into different situations, surround yourself with different people, change your routine. If you can't put in the effort to change what you don't like than you have to learn to accept and conform.

2007-04-16 20:10:39 · answer #9 · answered by Bored Enough To Be Here 6 · 1 0

It all comes with acceptance of the situation. If you dont want to or cant accept it then change you job and the situation and hope for something better.... Sorry.

2007-04-16 20:10:55 · answer #10 · answered by MJ 3 · 0 1

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