i haven't told my family that i am in relation with a guy
and they don't know i am gay..
i really fancy this guy but he is coming to my house to pick me up and i am a sophmore at NY high school and every one is going to know about it even my freinds!! what should i do?
what will my parents do?
would they acsept me?
2007-04-16 12:56:17 · 8 answers · asked by silouz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
for a prom and i think it is time for me to tell them and i am not changing my decision on teling him not to come'
2007-04-16 12:57:24 · update #1
If your family loves you they will accept you as you are. You should tell them and let them know that it is nothing they did it is just the way you are and you love them and you would like their support
2007-04-16 13:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by Lex 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
darling, it's NY! just come out with it. they are your parents, and will love you for you, not for who you are attracted to. as long as you are being safe in the relationship (you know what i mean-i'd say it to anyone, gay or straight), then you need to be honest about it. there is no way of knowing how your parents will react, until you tell them. they might even suspect it. tell them before that night comes.
you are still young, so i suggest not doing anything too serious.
if you made plans to go to prom together, then you knew that your friends would find out. don't worry. if they are your true friends, you'll find out.
2007-04-16 20:12:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You want him to be your date to the prom? Depending on where you live, the school may not permit it.
I would tell your parents FIRST - how you are feeling. Don't let them find out second or third hand.
2007-04-16 20:03:49 · answer #3 · answered by americansneedtowakeup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With your parents, I would tell them ASAP ( b4 your date), just be as honest as you can be. I am sure they will understand.... as far as your friends... they most likely already know. And if they don't accept you when they find out your gay, then they were never really friends in the first place.
2007-04-16 20:05:27 · answer #4 · answered by Rumisha R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the sooner u disclose this the better , but be ready for rejection @ first , and alot of anger , mothers are more compassionate than fathers , so ur dad may or may not speak to you 4 a while.
2007-04-16 20:01:58 · answer #5 · answered by kswift672000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please tell them before your friend comes to pick you up. He doesn't deserve to be caught up in this.
2007-04-16 20:04:21 · answer #6 · answered by Alice K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow all I can say is good luck with that. you are gonna need it.
2007-04-16 20:00:31 · answer #7 · answered by NolaDawn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-04-16 20:02:43 · answer #8 · answered by hh _ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋