what if a boy u like is only trying to use u 4 sex and his bestfriend comes on to u and he treats u rite what do i do?
2007-04-16 12:48:08 · 10 answers · asked by jakara j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
When its true love, you just know.
If you have to ask, then it probably isn't.
Don't let anybody just use you for sex. You're better than that.
If they really are best friends, I would watch out for the second guy too. If you've had sex with the first guy, he might have told his friend... And now he's trying to get in on the action.
Then again, he might be a genuinely nice guy, but would you want to date your ex's best friend?
2007-04-16 12:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by katie m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, obviously if you know that he's only using you for that then it's NOT true love. if you really do like his best friend then go with him because he'll treat you a lot better than the other guy. you shouldn't have to feel degrated and worthless (other than for that) because of a stupid guy who doesn't deserve you. maybe you'll grow onto this other guy and something may develop.
2007-04-16 13:10:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First just make sure....if that's true that another guy he just use u 4 sex......and if u think his friend treat u right then u should take care about him too.....dont' take a time for that....just tell him if u love him. BEST of LUCK.
2007-04-16 12:55:45 · answer #3 · answered by Mr.$Bad$ jatt *4rom* `Punjab` 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That shouldn't be a difficult thing to figure out.
Any boy who is only using you for sex is a jerk and doesn't deserve to have a girl friend.
Go with the guy who will treat you right.....
Save sex for marriage. You won't regret that either!
2007-04-16 12:52:47 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh that's the complicated one because of the fact LUST can sooo appear like LOVE. Lust reasons one to no longer see the adverse issues in the different guy or woman while love sees those issues and loves anyhow. its relatively the form you sense. dont you in general think of its love until its over than you recognize it wasnt? i understand that the three relationships i substitute into in earlier i've got been given married i theory it substitute into love yet now i know it wasnt because of the fact i understand what love is now and that i dont think of i'd desire to ever love every physique the same way if this is clever in any respect.
2016-11-24 23:34:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just know its a feeling deep down inside of you.. but how old are you??? TRUST your instincts if you feel he only wants you for sex then dont settle for his bullsh!t and go with the guy who treats you with more respect!!!
Follow your heart
2007-04-16 12:53:05 · answer #6 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you got some drama to work out in your life, that and trying to figure out why all the black girls at your school are getting pregnant.
2007-04-16 15:38:00 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guy is trying to use you for sex then its not true love. You have to respect yourself and not settle for second best.
2007-04-16 12:51:37 · answer #8 · answered by jeannie f 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
please if truly u want true love don't let use like a prostitute i.e do not i repeat do not let use for sex .and let your heart determine .if it is truly loves u would feel it deep inside of u .and u can not withstand see him at sight u feel like being alone like Macaulay Cullin but this time not u alone but with somebody after your heart
2007-04-16 13:17:46 · answer #9 · answered by mummy'sboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break off with your bf and go for his best friend.
2007-04-16 12:51:24 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋