2007-04-16 11:52:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well since my other question i have realized i like this other boy who we jacked off together! also how do i break it to him and make him like me?
2007-04-16 11:58:00 · update #1
First, you can't make people like you. Be yourself, if something develops then there you go, if not then don't push it.
As for coming out to your mom, I don't know. But just because you're gay it doesn't mean you're infertile, you can still have kids. I'm gay and I plan to have 2-3 biological kids plus some adopted ones. I'm no less a parent because of my sexuality.
2007-04-16 14:48:13 · answer #1 · answered by Luis 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Bless you Sweetie. I know this is going to be one of the most difficult things you will ever tell your mom.
I have a gay son who didn't come out to me until he was about 25. He really worried about tell his family, afraid that we would turn away from him.
But I didn't. None of us did. We all opened our arms to him and told him it was ok. It took a few years for his brother, sister and dad to totally accept that he was truly gay and it wasn't a phase nor that some one made him become gay. He was simply born that way.
It was difficult for me at first because I grieved for the life I thought he would have as "straight" man. I think all parents do that and your mom will probably mourn a little bit too.
You don't have to tell her right now. It'll be ok to wait awhile.
It's still possible for you to children. Either by adoption or by a surrogate mother.
Good Luck
2007-04-17 23:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you're gay doesn't make you sterile nor does it take away your options for having a child later down the road.
Just let her know that at 15, you just don't know where your life will take you and the possibility of grandchildren may still come about.
2007-04-16 18:56:51 · answer #3 · answered by DEATH 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hmm, Sounds like you have the same problem I have. I don't know how much help I can be but IM me at dragongrahamviper@yahoo.com. I've been getting tons of advice from friends. Plus, I'm 15 too.
2007-04-16 20:06:33 · answer #4 · answered by Blood Angel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yahoo! answers, Proudly turning the youth of America Gay for the past.. umm I don't know... Year or so?
Be a donor, adopt, etc.
2007-04-16 18:58:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds to me like you're lying... First off, no one can "Make" you gay... so how are you saying, "because of you guys..." So...either grow up... or go tell her that you've always been gay...
2007-04-16 18:56:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
you have to be your real gender (with an opposite gender) to have a Grandchild for your mom.
2007-04-16 18:57:33 · answer #7 · answered by robert p 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Just adopt kids when you get older.with me maybe?lolz......
2007-04-16 18:56:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Tell her you'll adopt.
2007-04-16 18:55:58 · answer #9 · answered by E Click 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Oh , they must be proud of you , he he he .
2007-04-16 18:57:35 · answer #10 · answered by 1diputs 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋