Okay, I LOVE exotic dancing and want to make a career out of it. The only problem is nervousness. When I'm in front of a crowd, I get really uncomfortable dancing. I have only danced at clubs...never for a job, but I really want to. It's a lot of money and it's what I want. I just don't know. Is there a way to get over being uncomfortable? Also to any dancers, is it easy to get over being uncomfortable, and is it really fun for you?
2007-04-16 10:41:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Dancing
another question...I'm 105 lbs but I don't have huge boobs...would I still have a chance?
2007-04-16 10:43:39 · update #1
I was uncomfortable my first time on stage. It gets easier. Just remember, customers could care less about your dancing, and strip club lighting hides flaws and makes everyone look good.
I don't know of any club that has a breast size requirement...that's ridiculous. There are dancers of all cup sizes, even in the most upscale clubs.
2007-04-16 13:49:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Most of the dancers that I have liked have been the ones who actually have a personality, can get a joke, and actually have some sense of rhythm. The "hotness" factor only works for a couple women at each club. The rest of the girls actually have to be nice.
As far as breast size goes, some clubs have minimum requirements- but the fake factor is getting out of hand. I can't stand it when they don't move, and you can tell that they're obvious fakes.
The confidence level will come- practice at home, perform for your boyfriend. Some dancers I have talked to said that the thing that they really enjoy is the rush they experience when they're on stage- and the stage fright just kinda goes away when you have fun with it.
2007-04-16 10:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by johntindale 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One thing I have noticed, is that exotic dancers all seem to be in their own zone, almost as if they aren't paying any attention at all to anyone around them. They block out the people, listen to the music and just go about their dance.
However, having said that, the ones who make the real money know how to play to an audience. They smile and interact, they know how to throw tempting glances and they can really get the audience involved. This takes practice. Just as a first timer in any job is nervous, but settles down after they have done it a couple dozen times, so it'll happen to you. Just be patient and proceed with your dreams.
2007-04-16 10:49:26 · answer #3 · answered by John B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 14:50:26 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
small boobs are not a problem. I have/had small boobs when I danced and I was the top earner at my club.
2007-04-16 16:11:01 · answer #5 · answered by M L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋