Ok..so my friend girlfriend is just mean. Like, she is rude to me and her boyfriend's family. She acts like she is this amazing person...but in reality she has done nothing but lie to all of us over and over. Her stories change when told to different people. Its really annoying. On top of that. She stuffs her bra. Like..BAD..and she is 16 years old. My friend is 18 and we are all over 18. We want her to finally understand that we are older than her and have more life experience and other problems other than Drama.
What should we do? He is living with her and her family who treats him like crap too. Ugh..its so annoying. And we just want to help him..but its almost like he is a zombie these days.
What should we do? We really wanna call her out on her lies and the fact that she is immature enough to stuff her bra. Seriously..who does that anymore?? lol
2007-04-16 10:16:52 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Huh? Your friends gf is mean. He is the one that has to deal with it. Why does it even get to you at all?
She is young. You realize how much more mature you are. Why don't you just ignore her? Why does it even come up?
But I doubt your friend is as upset about his gf as you are and I definitely don't think he'd appreciate you calling her out on her "lies". Usually calling someones gf a liar doesn't make you too popular.
2007-04-16 10:26:38 · answer #1 · answered by phantom_of_valkyrie 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
*This girl has some serious issues in the head.*
~She needs an intervention from ALL of you at the same time.~ ASAP!!
*If she is making you and your other friends feel that way, then you better speak up! Fast!
~And so what if you "hurt" her feelings, do not fall for it. She will probably cry and get all emotional on you...and be like "Why does everyone hate me?" "No one ever appreciates anything I do." "I can't ever please anyone or do anything right." "You are all against me, you have been the whole time." OR "You are just jealous of me."
~She will try and say anything she can to try and make you feel sorry for her. Trust me. Drama Queens do that. It's like they blast to the past when they were 5 yrs. old in the grocery store throwing a temper tantrum b/c their parents wouldn't buy them something.
.Anyways confront her all together and let her know why you all want to talk to her...just don't make her feel like you are attacking her. But yeah go around in a circle type of thing or whatever and you each tell her what your problem(s) are with her and that you all don't appreciate the way she acts and the way her boyfriend is treated either.
.INTERVENTION.
...do it.
2007-04-16 10:41:20 · answer #2 · answered by Shut your mouth when u tlk to me 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like you might want to do what you suggested. If it's true that she's lying to you all the time, then call her out on her lies. Confront her about it! Why talk about her behind her back?And the bra stuffing thing.....kinda wierd........but yet it's not a factor of being immature, it sounds more like an insecurity problem.
2007-04-16 10:25:01 · answer #3 · answered by jazzband08 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
TELL HER THAT U WONT TAKE HER CARP ENY MORE. AND CALL HER OUT AND JUST SO U KNOW THIS IS ADVICE FROM A 12 YEAR OLD. AND I AGREE HOW STUFFS THEIR BRA. MY GOD SHE IS SO IMATURE I DONT EVEN HAVE TO STUFF MY BRA LIKE I WOULD THO..LOL TELL HERE TO GET OUT OF YOUR LIFE AND HELP YOUR FRIEND I HOPE IT WORKS . BYE BYE. LOL
2007-04-16 10:23:37 · answer #4 · answered by dogcatrat.pets 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to call her out on it, because it looks like no one else will. What she is doing is not right. Talk to her bf and tell him she is not treating him or his family right and he should leave her.
2007-04-16 10:22:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what u just typed to us. And yah, i know people like her, they drive me crazy . (and i agree with the stuffing of the bra, could u be any more helpless???)
2007-04-16 10:27:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋