why do i have desire to teenagers?

Question

i am a 32 year old man but have a desire to have sex with teenagers, why ???! what can i do?

Answer 1

As long as they are over 18 you're legal to date them. It's a common fantasy but even 18-19 year olds, I've heard, are not that great for guys your age. They are emotionally immature and will probably be more trouble then they're worth. It's better to stick with somebody closer to your age.

Answer 2

The fact that you are asking for advice makes me assume that you aren't a bad person and that you actually want help....so ignore the people trying to make you feel bad.

I'm going to assume that when you say teenagers you aren't meaning '13 year olds'....but rather 16-19 year olds?

I don't think that's 'crazy' at all. I mean, what female wouldn't mind HAVING the body she had when she was 18?

I'm sure there are many other older men out there who have these desires.....you just can't let your desires control you. You can look at younger females and think they are attractive, but that is really where you must stop. If you let this take over, then this could land you in a lot of trouble....not that you need me to tell you this, I'm sure you already know.

I think speaking to a counselor may help.

There are so many other things that I'm wondering though....like, are you married? divorced? dating? What's your relationship status? There are a few other questions running through my mind....but I'm sure a professional would be a better person to talk to than me, lol.

Just don't do anything that could get you in trouble....and good luck with your 'problem'

Answer 3

Well 18 and 19 year olds are technically teenagers, but adults and completely legal. There's nothing wrong with being secually attracted to teenage girls. A lot of them are very good looking. As long as you keep your desires within the confines of the law, you'll be fine.

Answer 4

Let me preface my response by clearly stating that people who want to have sex with children are pedophiles.
That being said, all you have to do is go back in history, and not even that long ago, when men were supposed to take virgin girls to marry and the families received a "dowry" from the other side.
Let's go to England for a moment. I am really history-challenged, but it seems to me that many kings took many young brides. It used to be that if you were not married or promised off to someone to be married by the age of 16 , then you would die a lonely old spinster.
I have a solution for you, besides therapy, there are so many older women who still look really really young. Try to find someone closer to your age, who has lots of girlish qualities

Answer 5

Well maybe you should see a councilor or talk with the police. You having urges are not uncommon because you desire someone younger then you but it depends on what you are finding attractive. Anything under 18 is illegal and I think you should try to date someone older like 29 or above.

Answer 6

Realize that many men find younger women attractive. But also realize that if they're under certain ages it's very illegal (and immoral). If they're passive urges ie. you see an attractive teenaged girl and you find her appearance arousing but don' really have any urges to actually have sex with her. Then maybe just keep reminding yourself that it's just a mind game and not reality.

If you ACTUALLY want to pursue teenaged girls sexually, I'd say if you can't banish these urges yourself you may wish to speak to a sexual therapist to get a bit of aid in the matter.

Answer 7

I have a solution to your problem...simply date 18-19 year olds. They're still teenagers but definitely not jail bait...and I hope you never ever touch a younger girl because the only as* you'll get then is your 400 lb. cell-mates.

Answer 8

teenagers are for love not for sex
try falling in love
you don't think like a teen ager
try to be capable of falling in love and then discover the teenagers over 18 years old
and start a love base relationship

Answer 9

You need to realize that is disgusting, I dont think you would want your teenage daughter to be having sex with a 32 year old man. If you can't control yourself you will be looking at jail bars for a long time.

Answer 10

Were you a nerd as a teenager and want to recapture your youth? Let it go dude, and move on. Leave 'em young girls alone before you catch a case and become some skinhead's or gang-banger's wet dream in prison. Don't drop the soap.