He and i thought i was around 7 weeks pregnant but today we found out that i am really around 11 weeks. 3 months ago we were going through some problems and i was intimate with another man. Do the math. Although the next month (February) i did have my menstral cycle...who's the father?
2007-04-16 09:45:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Get a paternity test when the baby is born.
You do the math, we don't know the dates you do.
2007-04-16 09:50:51 · answer #1 · answered by jzgermany 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You are not going to be able to find out until after the baby is born. When the baby is born you need to ask for a paternity test. You can have the test done right there where you have the baby or you can go and have it done independently through the court system. If it is possible you should have both your boyfriend and the other man there so that samples of DNA can be taken of him, your boyfriend and the baby to determine who the father is. On a side note, even if you are pregnant, you can still have your period.
2007-04-16 16:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by debbie_75052 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 11 weeks pregnant then I don't think you really got your cycle in February, maybe it was just implantation bleeding and 11 weeks is almost 3 months. The only way to know for sure is a paternity test.
Sorry for the tough situation
2007-04-16 16:51:25 · answer #3 · answered by Stefani 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it has been 3 months since you had slept with the "other man" and you are only said to be 11 weeks, it should definitely be your boyfriends. If the eleven weeks is based on the first day of your last menstrual, you can normally minus about 2 weeks and you would technically be only 9 weeks from the day of conception.
2007-04-16 17:03:50 · answer #4 · answered by B D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he know you were intimate with the other guy? cause that would really suck if he didn't but you must be honest...within that 11 weeks you are speaking of is that when you had your period, cause some people do have their period and are still prego. You really need to do the math, yourself cause you may need to count to the day, but nothing you will be able to do will be exactly accurate. I suggest a paternity test to make sure, i think you can get one even before the baby is born, but i am not sure. Good luck to you, and congrats!
2007-04-16 16:54:37 · answer #5 · answered by vickie2391 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no way to know for sure. Alot of women have a menstrual cycle the first or second months they're pregnant. The only way to know for sure is having a paternity test done after the baby is born.
2007-04-16 16:51:20 · answer #6 · answered by BobTheBlazer 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I really can't answer that because I was like something in that same situation. well in my case when i found out that i was pregnant i was four weeks. i boyfriend was thinking that i had been cheating i had been but only once adn i was already pregnant when i cheated. we were having problems but its hard to explain. also he was listening to what people that we both deal with were telling him. so after we were separated for about 2 months and a couple of weeks. things started getting kind of better. we started back talking and getting back in good. it was all a joke and a lie. so after that situation took place. it went back to where it was at first. then this time it was war. Now we have a understanding about what was going on. we are talking and decided that we r going to work things out for the baby sake. that is my advice from me to u. try your best to make it work even if the baby isn't his. sometimes things intend to work out.
2007-04-16 17:10:30 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs.La Krunky of 2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would of needed to give us way more info. than you did in order to even attempt to figure this out. You need to know your ovulation cycle. Which you can figure out online just look up an ovulation calculator. Then you would need to comapre the exact dates that you had sex with the two men to when your body ovulated which is when you are most fertile. You will never def. know unless you get a DNA test done once the baby is born
2007-04-16 16:52:34 · answer #8 · answered by Diamond~ I <3 my Son 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm i think the only way to tell would be a DNA test after the baby is born.
how did you go from being 7 weeks to 11 weeks pregnant?
2007-04-16 16:50:13 · answer #9 · answered by Diana 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think that the man you slept with three months ago is the dad.Sperm can live in you for several days.Anyways, there is no way to know for sure without a paternity test.Good luck!
2007-04-16 17:21:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋