About swinging....would you think maybe she wants to check into it?? We never have (yet) but I think it would be sexy to watch....she just turned 40 but is still very HOT!
2007-04-16 09:25:48 · 12 answers · asked by Mike N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
maybe teasing isnt the right verb...but im curious when she mentions about swinging with one couple/guy in particular what she is thinking....the couple or guy....yes I would share her with them/him....as long as I could watch
2007-04-16 09:57:19 · update #1
Yeah she wants to..she is curious. Nothing bad to it, the only thing is u can start slowly maybe with soft swap with other cpls and then she'll get out of her curiousity of how it is. My hubby and i have been in this lifestyle for about 3 years now off and on..just be safe and dont go with many different partners. Though u may want to set some rules before you do it. And do, do it as a cpl, better be safe than sorry, u are not wanting to try swinging to fall in love with the other person.
Honesty is the best policy and make sure that u both have an open mind, no jealousy at all, otherwise your marriage will end. Maybe u can start by going to a swinging club, have her watch, and yeah it is very exciting and hot to watch.
2007-04-16 09:38:29 · answer #1 · answered by txladybug_2 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Teasing? Is that the right descriptive verb?
If your wife is interested then I don't think she'd tease you about it. She'd probably bring it up as a friendly joke and drop hints that she is interested in specific acts. However, if she "teases" you in an accusatory manner, then she might just be fishing...May be she wants to find out if YOU are looking for another/other partners.
P.S.
Listen carefully to her tone (not what she says). That will be a great indication of whether or not she is serious about swinging.
2007-04-16 16:35:12 · answer #2 · answered by jules_xcess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would it be sexy to watch her get hammered by some huge stallion and degraded like never before? If it happens once, you'll never be able to look her in the eye again and you will always feel inferior (wondering if your good enough, or large enough).
Save you marriage and skip the swapping. Right now your just peaking under the lid. It's a whole different world once the lid is removed and you jump in face first.
2007-04-16 16:40:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keeping it light, mention that maybe you should check it out, but be crystal clear about the rules and do's and don'ts before heading out. Maybe she wants to go once just to see what the hype is about and never act on it....get her thoughts on this first!
2007-04-16 16:29:42 · answer #4 · answered by Tangled Web 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that she is just trying to test the waters so to speak. She might also be talking just to get you turned on, too. Maybe she thinks that this is the kind of talk that gets you hot.
2007-04-16 17:01:13 · answer #5 · answered by biggirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she is absolutely interested. Before you do this, lay down ground rules and both agree. Do not take things outside of those guidelines. Be very sure you want to do this because it has ended marriages before.
2007-04-16 16:32:32 · answer #6 · answered by Tami C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to have a serious converstation with her about this. My advice to you though is not to prusue swinging. It is not right. Cheating is cheating and it will ruin your marriage.
2007-04-16 16:34:15 · answer #7 · answered by Jewells 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
for thinking like that i would say give her a paper cut down there and squirt some lemon on it. when she yells and screams be like it will be a lot worse infront of god...that will teach her...
2007-04-16 17:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by Tony M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say leave it alone... Sharing intimacy is sacred... At least in my opinion it is... Knock your self out having fun together, but let it be just you and her....
Just my two cents....
2007-04-16 16:34:46 · answer #9 · answered by Jane 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
she is playing with your head to turn you on.
I think that the IDEA of doing it is one thing.......following through is another and could be harmful to your marriage.
2007-04-16 16:48:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋