Well...this guy I frequent the same gym, and we met a few months ago, and he always flirted with me, he even asked me to call him if I ever wanted to hang out, or go to a movie, but I never did.So a few months ago, and we set some dates, and out plans never went through, so we never got the chance to hook up and plus I stopped going to the gym so I never really ran into him.So I started going back to the gym, a few weeks ago, and when he seen me he was smiling, and he asked me out again, but his uncle/friend passed away...and I verified this so it actually DID happen,and he apologized and we had a long talk, and he told me was sorry, and that he doesnt want me to think he doesn't want to be bothered with me, but that he's trying to get out of financial difficulties and want's he gets this second job "it's on and crackin"lol..so would you say he likes me or pullin my leg?
2007-04-16 09:12:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you'll have to spend a little time with him to find out.
You could be friends for a while, go to lunch , just do things friends do. It wont take long to see what his feelings are.
2007-04-16 09:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by eviechatter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like he is intersted in u but he probably dont know how to face u when it comes to being alone on a date with u so he makes all these excuses. cause right now he sees u at the gym and talks to u there but in reality he probably dont know what to do with a girl when he is alone.
but let me tell u from my point of veiw. i was talkin to this guy while back and we worked together thats how i meet him anyways we likes each other and started talking. things got a little hot and heavy after a while. we was talking for about 1 and then quit. but let me get to the point. i would always arrange things to do with him and he would agree with me okay I'll meet u here. And everytime we plan to do something he stood me up EVERY TIME. then now we dont even talk anymore and when i do talk to him he is always busy. so then i gave up and said screw him he aint worth my time. i have better things in life to talk to a guy that doesnt want to hang out with me. so its really up to u on what u want to do with this guy. cause anything could happen. he might come up with an excuse again. If he did it once he'll do it again like my dude that i was talking to.
Good luck.
2007-04-16 10:51:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say he likes you. You should suggest doing inexpensive things like an author event at a bookstore or any of the many things listed in the calender section of the paper. Movies are less expensive in the early afternoon (matinee). go for a hike, etc..
2007-04-16 09:21:16 · answer #3 · answered by Tarpaulin 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like to many excuses to me, but if you really like him, and I don't think you do that much, give him another chance. If he messed that one up, drop him like a hot frying pan. Nobody deserves to be lied to, or mislead. Thats just not a pleasant situation to be in, and you need to concider someone else. If he makes you unhappy now, just think how unhappy you will be when together, adn he continues his deceitful ways.
2007-04-16 09:19:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my experience, any man who would want anything to do with me would not make excuses and just come and see me and not pull my leg and lead me on.
It sounds like he is doing this to you, and I do believe you should move on and stop wasting time with this one!!!
There are so many fishes in the sea and life is to short to be wasting away waiting for one man!!! Who is obviously stuck on making you wait for him!
Move on girlfriend!
2007-04-16 09:21:29 · answer #5 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is what is going on...he has a girlfriend. He is having trouble hooking up with you because he needs to work around his current girlfriend.
The question is now what will you do?
2007-04-16 09:20:29 · answer #6 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He likes you. He sounds like he's just havin' a tough time right now. Give him time to sort things out. In the mean time, that doesn't mean you have to sit at home and waite. Go out and meet people....
2007-04-16 09:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he should make up for standing you up. show that you are skeptical and see if he tries to so something a little outstanding to get your interest. if he doesn't forget about it!
2007-04-16 09:57:02 · answer #8 · answered by femaletimehour 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YIKES !!!!! If I had known girls were this gullable years ago, life would have been so much easier !!!!!
2007-04-16 09:17:51 · answer #9 · answered by Ken C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋