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For some reason my friends think I'm lieing to them. How do I regain their trust even though I haven't told them a single lie?

2007-04-16 09:03:17 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

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Can you prove to them that you are telling the truth? Is there someone that can vouch for you? If not, don't worry about it. If your telling the truth then just let it pass. Your friends will and will soon find out you were telling the truth. If you think it is best to move on and find new friends, then do that, but you shouldn't get all bent out of shape from one thing. It's just not worth it. Life's too short.

2007-04-24 08:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by Jenny007 2 · 0 0

HOW MANY HAVE YOU TOLD THEM THEN? OK IF THE ANSWER ISN'T ....YOU HAVE TOLD THEM MANY LIES
(then you have a problem) NOT JUST A SINGLE ONE then I think! I Think about when it first started and see who started them thinking that you have lied,if you figure out who is the Trouble maker you can get others to realize its not you ,ITs the trouble maker
Now I say this from experiance,there si allways some one in the bunch that instagates a problem,
Who is jealous?
did you just get something new?maybe accecptance by ?
or other than usual that is enveyed by a Person in the group,People are funy,you know.and it dosent mean the end of the world either,Human nature is a odd thing,and sometimes people do things and dont even realize it....
like start problems ,and or lie?
Also Miscommunication is a big Culprit
could you have said something confusing or is someone mis quoteing you?if they are your friends ask them to all at the same time write down what they think you lied about with outeach others input...then lets take a look,ummm,one is bound to show up compleetly diffrent if this is your problem with misscomunication....I can go on....Just look at it difrently like NOT a lie but a? THINK YOU CAN DO IT....IF you trully didnt lie
the truth shall set you free..dont sweat it...a real friend will step foward just dont get angry that is the worst thing,things get said that you can never ever take back,,OK now go figure out the real scoop.......HAVe fun doing it..summer is allmost here and you wantto be with your friends...

2007-04-24 08:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by Linda 1 · 0 0

First of all, why do you have to regain their trust if you never told them a single lie? Maybe they dont trust you in the first place. Maybe theyre not really true friends. Think outside the box.

2007-04-22 22:47:50 · answer #3 · answered by holly_golightly 1 · 0 0

You haven't told a single lie and your friends think you're a liar? Why do you call these people friends, and why do you want to regain their trust?

2007-04-16 09:07:28 · answer #4 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0 0

i have had the same problem before, and it takes time to regain the trust in people, even if you shouldnt have lost it in the first place.

There is no quick way of going about this but just give it time, and when your friends see that you are trust worthy and that you don't lie, and keep secrets they will realise.

sorry if this did not help but it worked for me just took a little bit of time!

2007-04-24 06:18:33 · answer #5 · answered by Liberty 1 · 0 0

I know how you feel and you can't always convince people when you are being honest with them. Sometimes people will believe what ever story they want to believe about you. Just like rumours that people make about others.

I once had a family member say something about me and it wasn't true at all. I tried to ask the family member that it was repeated to and they believed them over me.

It's hard I know be falsely accused of something that you have not done and it does happen to many people around the world so it's not uncommon. Just do a search on the web and you will find quite a bit about people in those situations.

Even Joseph in the bible was accused of lying when he was innocence. I have found that when ever I got through things I find comfort in the bible to help me get through what ever happens to me at the time.
http://www.biblelight.org/mfjoseph.htm

I hope that will help you.

2007-04-23 14:40:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

your still lying stop lying and go somewhere else and stop asking dumb questions and if your friends think your lying then i guess there reallly not ypur friends are they???
friends forgive thats it and if you outgrow eachothyer and one of you decides to go your sepertae way than that happens but your too young to think that complicated arent yah just liek i saud before focus on school so you can help people properly instead of freaaking out on them which you should not be unless they are a complete moron okay your friends messing with your head arent going to help you if you need time apart than whatever and im sure youll forgive eachother if not than i guess its you and your books and new friends that wont think your a liar at there slightest whim geeeez dee get with the program your 13 your life is just starting you shouldnt have to regain theyre trust becuase if they are your friends than they would already know you arent a liar and a very good person right?? right so they arent very good friends if they are calling you a liar ...... but i dont think people can really answer this question for you its something you have to decide for yourself because your in a certain situation that kinda is done down to the tea so that there really is no way to answer it other than to point you in the direction of your own advice so heres a hint school helping enjoyment friends that trust you and dont get mad at you for silly things and get yourself some new shoes they shiny kind and a really nice hat.... like really nice so when they ask you(yourfriends) you can say well i guess nobody thinks im nice on the inside so i hav to look nice on the outside

2007-04-22 14:52:44 · answer #7 · answered by whomp a doodle doodle do 3 · 0 1

Maybe u haven't told a single lie, but a lot of them.

2007-04-24 08:12:01 · answer #8 · answered by 2sexy 2cute 4 · 0 0

Your friends are asking you to prove something you cannot prove...It's called disproving a negative.

For example, let's say you were dating a girl for six months and all of a sudden asked her to prove to you that she hadn't cheated? Well, really, she can't. She couldn't even remember what she's done every day, 24/7, for the last six months, nor could any friends who would back her up.

You would be asking her to prove something that's impossible to do.

That's what your so-called friends are asking you to do.
Be honest with yourself. If you can look in the mirror and say you have not hedged on the truth with them, then the problem lies with them, not you. Find new friends.

2007-04-24 02:37:01 · answer #9 · answered by margot 5 · 0 0

Well how do we know what you say isn't a lie??? You may have not told them a single like but you may have told a lie in the question itself.

2007-04-22 12:10:34 · answer #10 · answered by Will 3 · 0 0

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