Does having sex before be a problem ahead? what if the boy has sex bfore marriage its often but when girls have it. its a big problem.
2007-04-16 08:33:15 · 15 answers · asked by j4g2r 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sex with other
2007-04-16 09:27:46 · update #1
Depends on a person standards. If the man wants to marry a virgin and has his heart on what ever part of his body set on it, then marrying a woman who has had sex would be a problem. But the real deal is how it is between the couple being married, if it's good for both of them, there shouldn't be any problem.
2007-04-16 08:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pre marital sex is not at all good. I'd never advice for that. It completely destroys the charm & real joy of real love & exciting sexual experience after marriage wich is best satisfactory and free from any tension & guilty conscious. No marriage of a virgin girl with a boy having premarital sex & vice versa is advisable in any condition because such bad charactered boys or girls of premarital experience r neither honest nor reliable nor can they have stable mind. Such persons will do dishonesty & injustice in other matters of life too.
2007-04-17 08:44:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends upon how you look at this problem. Ask this question to yourself: Would you deem it proper if your unmarried daughter slept with a guy next room? If you think it is good then it is good for you too.
But remember, all human beings have basically similar attitude. A boy may have premarital sex. But then should he not mind if he came to know one day that his wife had several boys who slept with her before marriage. If he does not mind that then premarital sex is fine.
Don't dish it if you cannot take it.
No wrong act can be a bliss!
2007-04-19 08:32:27 · answer #3 · answered by Ishan26 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a big problem for close minded people. Why would you not want to see if sex is something good between both of you before you get married. What if you save yourself and then find out that your partner SUCKS in bed?? Sex is a very important part of a relationship.
2007-04-16 16:04:49 · answer #4 · answered by marisanj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have read some answers. Asking you to which century you belong or to which country. It doesn't matter. Sex before marriage is morally wrong. There is no excitement in marriage if sex is experienced before marriage. Wedding night's bliss is lost. There is always scope for improvement in sexual functions. Medications are available. Doctors are available. Marriage is not just sex. Its compatiblity in all ways. And compatiblity can be developed. No one is born for each other. You have to develop to like each other and thier qualities. That's what marriage is all about. Its not FAST FOOD. You have to learn how to cook and enjoy the meal
2007-04-17 04:19:11 · answer #5 · answered by sunilbernard 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think having sex with the person that you love isn't a problem, Plus don't you want to find out if the sex is good before you get married?!
2007-04-16 15:49:26 · answer #6 · answered by Dbrown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is tricky..as we all have our own prferences. Some may want to find out sexual compatibility while some dont.
But here the question is a bit vague..did you mean sex with your fiance or was it sex with someone else.
Anyways Keep in mind that if aguy expects his wife to be a virgin then he also should be one..
2007-04-16 16:25:26 · answer #7 · answered by Aura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex before marriage is not a problem, no matter what your gender is.
2007-04-16 16:16:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi dear there is no prob of having pre marital sex. the only matter is to use contraceptive method like condoms. in modern world all r clever n wel educated, they kno how to save them selves from big prob...
2007-04-17 11:11:39 · answer #9 · answered by amit c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For myself, knowing if I am sexually compatible with my spouse was very important to me. Marrying and not being sexually fulfilled defiantly means a rocky raod ahead.
2007-04-16 15:54:59 · answer #10 · answered by Dayla 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋