I know that he is always on my mind and I never stop thinking about him. I feel like my life would fall apart if he is not there. I'm so happy when he is @ me and our boys and when he is not there and at work i'm depressed. Even when Im mad at him I can't see my life without him. When he is mad I'm unhappy and when he is happy i'm happy it's crazy. We have been married for 4 years and together for 7 years.
2007-04-16 08:19:50 · 17 answers · asked by crystal t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You answered your own question sweetie. You are TRULY IN LOVE. Those are definite signs of being in love. Good luck in your marriage. It takes a strong man and and a strong woman to have what you have. Especially if you can work through anything and just be together no matter what. Nothing should come in between you.
2007-04-16 08:45:48 · answer #1 · answered by marshamarsha3333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always found that if a person has to ask whether they are in love, they often a) are not or b) do not know enough about themselves, nor trust themselves to know what is and is not true in life...
Which are you? If its the latter, you need some counseling...go alone, just for yourself. Seems to me you have a lot at stake here...2 little boys who also need a loving mother and father. So work on yourself first...though I don't know HOW you can be so confused having spent 4 years with the guy and after having 2 boys with him...Pretty scary.
Grace
2007-04-16 15:28:31 · answer #2 · answered by bunnyONE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are definitely attached to him. But your happiness is way too dependent on your husband. The issue is more with you, and not him. Maybe you need to be able to find happiness within yourself and what it is you do. If you can find happiness in your everyday life, you can make your relationship even better. Its not whether you love your husband, its if you love yourself.
2007-04-16 15:50:59 · answer #3 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip. You will push him away. You will eventually grow up and resent the fact that you were not living your life. You should be able to make yourself happy. I want someone to share everything with. I want a soulmate and partner for life not a groupie or fan.
2007-04-16 15:30:35 · answer #4 · answered by db14 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a little late to be asking this question...you are already married and obviously its working out to be with the man for 7 years...follow your heart
2007-04-16 15:23:18 · answer #5 · answered by ndaugette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure why you're asking the question?! Sounds to me as if you'r still going through the honeymoonm period, which after 7 years is pretty good going!
2007-04-16 15:25:31 · answer #6 · answered by scribbler767 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If what you said is true, then you love him!
When you will do anything to make eachother happy and when you can't live without eachother, that's true love.
Congratulations, keep up the good work.
2007-04-16 16:06:02 · answer #7 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you've been married for that long and together for longer how do you not know if you love him or not? To me it sounds like your head over heals. Trust your heart, it wont steer you wrong. But if you don't know after this long...thats questionable.
2007-04-16 15:24:25 · answer #8 · answered by *Heather* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your in love with someone. You know. you shouldn't have to be on yahoo answers to figure this out girl! ask yourself one question, if i didn't have him, would i be happy? if the answer is yes, then you are not in love, and should not be making both of you suffer like that.
I wish you luck.
2007-04-16 15:25:39 · answer #9 · answered by FU! -.~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell if he:
1) buys you a snake
2) kills everyone
3) Eats a lot of Doritos
4) bbqs lions
5) kills everyone(again)
6) Marries another woman
2007-04-16 15:24:24 · answer #10 · answered by off the wall♥ginnaaa 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋