what the best way to win back a heart that was losed how do i make her see how importan she is to me with out beging and makeing a fool out of my self
2007-04-16 07:14:49 · 13 answers · asked by william s 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
beg and make a fool of yourself, you gotta try everything my friend if she means so much, I'm in the same boat. Good luck!
2007-04-16 07:19:29 · answer #1 · answered by ~☆ Petit ♥ Chou ☆~ 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hello dear, there are some interesting points on here, though in some cases it would not really matter what you do. If her love was not true in the first place and she was just toying with your emotions then whatever you did to try and win her back would make you look foolish. If however there was a time when true love existed in your relationship then it could be that whatever has happened may need time to heal and when she finds herself in a calm relaxing moment her mind will wander to all the happy times you shared and she might just forgive you. Just remember be calm and pray, if she does offer you a second chance then handle her with care and respect her needs. I'm sure she will be equally as careful the second time around. She may be hurting too, as all arguements have two sides, and it may just be that she has had time to reflect on the things she did or said wrong too. It's not good to let things go too long or either of you may feel the other does not care, regardless of what any one else says.
Regards Di
2007-04-16 16:44:28 · answer #2 · answered by allseeingdi 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You cannot make anyone love you. I do believe that once you love a person, then that love will always exist. Did she love you? Has she found somone else? Did you do somthing that hurt her? If you think she still loves you, do not beg!!! (Women hate that -- plus you will lose your pride in doing so.) Just show her with actions that you are sorry about what caused the split, and you will do your best to make her happy. Write her a beautiful love letter or poem, send her a "thinking of you card" every day, be persistent in making sure she knows how much you care. Leave a single rose on her car every morning. But, if she has stated without equivication that it is over, you must accept it and move on. Learn from your mistake and go from there.
2007-04-16 15:05:49 · answer #3 · answered by TexasDolly 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You cannot paste the glass pieces and make the glass again.Love initially starts with attraction,admiration and expectations.Once the expectations are not realised ,it fails.Even people say platonic love,you cannot dismiss the underlying sex,money or world of comforts.Once the initial fantacy blows out,basic instincts surface and may break up the relations.Unless you find out the reasons for breakup and you are capable to provide them will be making a fool of you only.
2007-04-19 04:36:34 · answer #4 · answered by leowin1948 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love , lust or infatuation.!
You may have a case of Billies Blues , So little self regard that it is only the unobtainable that interests you . Anyone who does show an interest in you would probably be summarily dissmed by you , your inferiority complex would discount them as what would they know anyway.
But dont think I'm being snide or snotty , it is quite a common phenonemnon i society.
Learn more about yourself .There are always disparites in love one loves one more than the other partner , but all in all it is best to be the one that loves the most it is more painfull but one is ''Lost;'' in the malestrom !
2007-04-17 06:02:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she finished with you for a reason, if you change to suit her you are not being true to yourself. I know it sucks but maybe you should move on. Trust me a truck load of booze and many many 01:50 women and you will be right as reign. Plus she gets to see that you have moved on and that p**sses in her corn flakes cos now she doesn't have that hold over you
2007-04-17 13:45:36 · answer #6 · answered by hales 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can never win back what doesn't want to be yours, and trying will only make the situation worse. as the saying goes its better to have loved and lost then never to have loved at all
2007-04-19 04:29:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If what she wants is to be left alone, there is nothing else she will be grateful for... If you two are truly meant to be together, then it will happen; just don't stalk her or wear out her patience and ... I don't think she would admire/feel attracted to you making a fool of yourself and grovelling either, no matter what some people say.
Good luck.
2007-04-16 16:16:40 · answer #8 · answered by Serene 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
yes, make yourself appear fool if youre sincere it will be effective but in case she have already someone in her life maybe its time to let go, it will be easier for both of you.
2007-04-20 10:28:51 · answer #9 · answered by tutero_k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you must understand why you broke up. Resolving this issue is paramount. After that, you must appear unruffled by the break up, confident, calm. Let her see you like this. The rest is up to her.
2007-04-16 14:32:36 · answer #10 · answered by Lao Pu 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋