I already know everyone's going to tell me I'm a cheater, tell me I'm horrible and all that crap I don't need to hear. But have any of you cheated and not regretted it like me?
2007-04-16 07:09:50 · 14 answers · asked by J 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I doubt some may believe this...but this would be the first time I've EVER cheated in my life. I know it doesn't make it better, but I just want everyone to know I'm not a repeat offender.
2007-04-16 07:17:29 · update #1
There are some good answers here, but the only one who can decide this...is you. How many times have we asked the question "is it possible to love more than one person?" Anything is possible..and when we are dealing with feelings of lust....it is even more true! You need to understand/admit what your current relationship means to you, then decide if it should continue. The 2nd time my ex cheated, I told her 'what's good for the goose is good for the gander' but we wound up splitting a few years later. Best thing to ever happen to me cause I found out what true love really is! "Anything is possible."
2007-04-16 07:39:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
There are some women who are simply just cheaters. It's who they are. It's rare but there are others like you out there. Personally, I feel guilty as hell. But that doesn't make you a bad person. I think you should see a therapist who can get more in depth with you about your problem. It may be that you are settling for the wrong guys. It may be that you will always cheat. Only a therapist can get that in depth to find out what the root cause is.
2007-04-16 07:15:28 · answer #2 · answered by Ruby Dragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have cheated once in a past relationship because i was not happy..at all and the man i cheated on was abusive which i dealt with for over 3 years...It took my cheating to realize i could have better and the man i cheated on him with i ended up being with him for two years until he got shipped to iraq and i could not handle it so i left him, then i met my husband and i could never think to cheat on him, he is tooo important to me..
Yeah i had regrets when i cheated on my ex only because it is morally wrong and i would hate to be cheated on but i was honest with my ex and told him what happened, I had to have the man i cheated on him with be there so my ex did not end up doing something he could end up in prison for because that was the type of man he was..By the way the man i cheated on him with was a military cop so he knew exactly how to handle situations like these..Thankfully everything worked out great and i have never been happier.....
2007-04-16 08:52:08 · answer #3 · answered by Kasja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cheated without regrets then the relationship you're in means little to you. This doesn't make you a bad person, only that you need to realize the worth of your relationship without cheating to truly know.
2007-04-16 07:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by Mercedes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOUR NOT FEELING GUILTY ABOUT CHEATING THEN THAT REALLY TELLS YOU SOMETHING. WHY ARE YOU WITH SOMEONE THAT DOESN'T MAKE YOU HAPPY? YOUR LOOKED OUTSIDE YOUR RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE YOU WERE UNHAPPY AND DIDN'T FEEL BAD ABOUT IT. I THINK WHAT IS MAKING YOU FEEL BAD IS THAT WHEN YOU CAME BACK TO YOUR RELATIONSHIP YOU REALIZED HOW UNHAPPY YOU REALLY WERE.
SWEETIE THIS SHOULD BE A SIGN THAT YOU REALLY NEED TO GET OUT OF THIS RELATIONSHIP. IT WILL BE BETTER FOR YOU AND YOUR SPOUSE.
2007-04-16 09:12:58 · answer #5 · answered by 3whiskerbiscuits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you cheat? Payback? Bored? Wanted sex with this particular guy?
2007-04-16 07:58:23 · answer #6 · answered by Sam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, never cheated.
2007-04-16 07:15:36 · answer #7 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep becasue I found out he was cheating on me too.
2007-04-16 07:13:06 · answer #8 · answered by Worried wife 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you regret it? Your current relationship can't mean that much to you.
2007-04-16 07:16:27 · answer #9 · answered by Shannon H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you still married?
If you want and enjoy cheating, get out of your marriage!
2007-04-16 07:13:25 · answer #10 · answered by hi_stk_n 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋