I just don't understand it, I don't find gay men a turn on at all, so what is it about lesbians that is so attractive? x
2007-04-16 05:09:40 · 18 answers · asked by *teenagekicks* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
But James, gay men are double the amount of penises! Why do so many men think about it, and practically no women think about gay men?
2007-04-16 05:14:33 · update #1
It has to do with the male ego and the conceit that women can't have "real sex" without men. We are not necessarily turned on by lesbians as much as what we falsely want to believe leads to and causes those lesbian acts. When most guys see two women making out even if it's in a crowded room filled with people it taps into our self ego that we might not even be fully consciously aware of but in our minds it's because they want us (me) and can't have us (me) but that they are so super horny that they can't help themselves and are forced to sexually gratify each other without us (me).
2007-04-16 06:22:32 · answer #1 · answered by benjamin 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most men find lesbians a turn on because it doubles the amount of women in a sexual situation.
I've never found that more stimulating than simple a naked woman in a sexual situation.
That said, I find butch women, straight or gay, extremely attractive.
My last two gf's were pretty butch. One to such an extent she started transitioning into a guy a month into our relationship. Fortunately, after transitioning he still found me attractive, I still found him attractive and our girlfriend was ok with it all. Our girlfriend, even being a little butch too, loved the idea of having two boyfriends. He and I didn't mind the idea of having a bf and gf.
With regards to why women don't find two guys going at it sexy, some do - still, women are much less visually oriented when it comes to being sexually stimulated. How many women have you seen get really turned on just by seeing an attractive guy walk down the street, compare that to guys getting turned on by seeing an attractive woman walk down the street.
2007-04-16 05:15:40 · answer #2 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you've ever "studied" any thing about sex, it's an undeniable FACT that even women find this exciting. Studies show that almost ALL women have "lesbian" tendencies. The female body is just so sexual. It's meant to be enjoyed by all. Just because you have sex with another female does NOT make you a lesbian or homosexual, it just means you enjoy sex, period.
2007-04-16 05:22:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Its all about sexual curiosity and a feeling that given a chance the guy could sort out the dysfunctional sexuality of the lesbian .
2007-04-17 05:54:38 · answer #4 · answered by robert x 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweeping statement strikes again
Try SOME men
2007-04-16 05:15:28 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's part of their genetic make-up to be turned on the the whole fake lesbian thing. You have to live with it. They will never change. I just tend to laugh because if they actually saw to real live lesbians (i.e. not dolly birds with fake boobs and fake nails) at it I don't think they would be as turned on.
2007-04-16 05:14:07 · answer #6 · answered by Misha-non-penguin 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Apparently (it was a documentary on the television a few years ago) straight women find lesbian sex a turn on too, in fact a lot more than straight sex.
2007-04-16 05:15:38 · answer #7 · answered by Faith 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Dreaming of being the first to change their ways so they earn bragging rights. Like this: "Look, dude, that chick was totally into girls only, but after I gave it to her she's crazy for me. Ain't I hot?"
2007-04-16 05:17:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
its the two women thing.99 percent of men have had thoughts about it.
2007-04-16 05:12:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Classic male fantasy - wade in and sort them both out.
2007-04-16 05:17:28 · answer #10 · answered by lulu 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋