I split w/ my ex a few mos ago & startd seein some1 else, I thot I was over my ex & he wantd me back the whole time. I just found out a girl is callin him & I'm jealous. We got back 2gether for a few days but then it seemd like the same ol stuff was goin to start happenin so we decided to end it again. He told me hed wait for me to be ready & that he still loved me. Well just this fri. nite he called me at like 4 in the mornin, I didn't answer & on sat. he said he calld me bcause hes told me b4 he can't sleep & thinks of me. So sat. I did some thinkin & decided that I do want to make it work. I didnt put much effort those 2 dys we were back 2gether but now I'm ready. Well so I told him & he said no that he loves me but realizd r relationship isn't goin 2 work. Now I'm confuzed how can he go from tellin me earlier that day that he wakes up & thinks of me to no our relationship isnt goin 2 wrk? Do you think he's feelin like he's got the ball back cuz Im tellin him I'm ready??
2007-04-16 05:00:45 · 5 answers · asked by justbeingme_ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is typical. Sounds like you're ready to break up but you're having problems with the changes that are involved.
If your husband has realized it's over and doesn't want to try anymore, so be it. Follow his lead. No one says you have to make a decision today or tomorrow.
Get used to being by yourself and try not to get involved with anyone until you're finished with this relationship. It will only bring stress and drama to a new relationship. Good luck.
2007-04-16 05:11:36 · answer #1 · answered by katydid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is playing games with you. The thing is, we can have feelings for someone but just not be right for each other because we can't communicate effectively. I would guess he has realized this, that no matter how hard you try, love or not, you two will not be happy together. It is always ahrd to let go of a relationship, and you are going through the transition period right now. Let him go. You'll both be happier a year from now, trust me.
"Sometimes Love Just Ain't Enough".
2007-04-16 05:37:01 · answer #2 · answered by industengr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he wants you to be there for him but he does not want to be there for you. Sounds pretty one sided to me. By the way, being jealous is not a good start in any relationship. You either trust him or you don't. After all, it is a fact of life that people look but it is how they react after the move has been made that counts. If someone can take your guy away by flirting etc, then he is not much of a catch to begin with.
2007-04-16 14:35:03 · answer #3 · answered by lollylou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mention if this is an ex-boyfriend or husband, but either way this guy isn't grown up enough for you to bother with. But I also have to question your maturity. Does this guy really offer any qualities other than he thinks he wants you back and he thinks he loves you? You didn't mention them if he does. Sounds to me that he isn't really into commitments, just needs.
2007-04-16 05:10:41 · answer #4 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not like that.
When he told you that he'll wait, he was probably in a different situation.
Feelings change overtime.
2007-04-16 05:08:09 · answer #5 · answered by Ronald P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋