what do you do when you have feelings for somebody on and off? Do you still continue going out with that person?
i been having on and off feelings from these two girls... im not going out with them... but i do meet them in different places everyday... 1 girl from school who is shy and its hard to tell if she likes me or not... and girl 2 from work... girl 2 has a boyfriend... shes been showing interest in me. checking me out 1 time before at work... smiling at me... talking to me...i can tell shes interested me but she has a boyfriend so i leave her alone... but when im at work i want to talk to her and show her im interested but i just cant cause she has a boyfriend... and girl 1 from school... i talk to her 1 time before... than i asked for her number 2 months later... she made an excuse up by saying she doesnt know her cell phone number... and i said.. i cant call you sometime? and she said theres problems and its complicated to explain so i left it at that for a while... than i talk to her again and she seems interested in me but like i said shes kinda shy and her parents could be strict cause of her family being baptists... so right now im confuse... i just got off from work and having a lil feelings from girl 2... any advice?
2007-04-16 04:07:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
..isnt this supposed to be in the "relationships" category?..
2007-04-16 04:09:16 · answer #1 · answered by chillie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WoW! You diffently have a problem! Umm... girl 2 has a boyfriend so I would leave her alone before something gets started, or at least tell her your like her and are interested but are afraid to show it because she has a boyfriend! Girl 1 on the other hand seems to be playing a little hard to get! My bad, a lot of hard to get! She is probably your best shot at a great relationship if that what your looking for when girl 2 is like a one night stand! girl 1 you know want go behind your back when girl 2 is going behind someones back already flirting with you. I say leave girl 2 alone and talk to girl 1! Ask her what do have to do to know you more, but don't sound too desperate when saying it! I hope I helped you instead of confusing you even more from my rambling! Good luck and God bless!
2007-04-16 11:17:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If Girl 2 has a boyfriend leave her alone. Especially since you dont want to find yourself under the fists of her boyfriend. If she breaks up with him then shes fair game but until then just be kind to her but dont date her. Girl 1 sounds like she doesnt want to date anyone right now for personal reasons. Ask for her number again and if she says things are complicated again, just tell her you're willing to listen and if she ever wants to talk about it you're there for her. I'm sure she'll appreciate your concern. You could always give her your number.
2007-04-16 11:15:12 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although this is not supposed to be in this category. Without even having to read it all, I've decided for you that YOU DO NOT want the girl with the bf, because how would you feel if your gf cheated on you? And also if she's cheating on her old bf then she'll probably cheat on you! So that girl is out of the question.
For girl number one, all I have to say, is that if you really have feelings for that girl. You should ask her about her parent's rules and make sure she knows that you will follow them. And plus her parents would be really impressed!
But all in all, if you are having mixed feelings then you should wait until you really KNOW which one you want. But if you want a shot with one of these girls, then number 1 is the best choice, although you have to be willing to follow her parents rules or accept that she's not really interested in you and she's just making excuses. Good luck either way!
2007-04-16 11:12:45 · answer #4 · answered by ħ Ì Wêår M¥ Mê?ål Må§k 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are getting mixed messages from both of these girls. That, or you are misinterpreting what they are saying. Girl 1 sounds as though she is not really interested in you. Girl 2 from work may just like your company, that does not mean she wants to hook up. You sound like a young buck. Just know that not all flirting means that whomever is dishing it out is ready to commit to you. Get used to flirting, it happens all the time, and it mostly stays as just flirting. Good luck.
2007-04-16 11:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by marcio c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like they are tied up with other boy friends and just wants to talk to you as friends. If I were you I would be looking for another girl friend.
2007-04-16 11:14:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well about thet girl at work i think you should show her your interested in her and if she really likes you shell leave her boyfriend for you and if she dont well just let it go and that girl at school well if she really likes you she shouldnt care about her parents well good luck sweetie
2007-04-16 11:14:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Taking a poll for the most boring Question ?
2007-04-16 11:11:22 · answer #8 · answered by Ray2play 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don,t feel totally committed to girl one you should finish with her.It,s not fair to string her along if you can,t get with the second girl..
2007-04-16 11:12:59 · answer #9 · answered by Bella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To the relationships section!! None of us got time to answer this!!
2007-04-16 11:16:03 · answer #10 · answered by Jase 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play them both and find another girl they both don't know about so you can scamm a third one!!
2007-04-16 11:16:00 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋