I hate school. I cannot stand my school do I skip it almost every day. Luckily, I am A smart person and I'm in all of the advanced classes and don't have reputation as a rebel. Only the people who really know me know about my strange feelings. My parents don't care - they don't even mention it if I don't go to school. What I end up doing is leeping all day and then staying up all night talking to my girlfriend. I get behind in my work and when I try to go back to school I get a bunch of crap from my teachers and friends. I just get so depressed when I considering dropping out altogether, but I really don't want to do that because I realize it would ruin my life. I don't want to go back at all but I also don't want it to ruin my life. I am so confused and I have really tried to go back and juzt can't take it. What should I do? please help.
2007-04-16 03:43:30 · 11 answers · asked by EDisON 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Primary & Secondary Education
Everyone feels this way.
Most kids have no way to "act out" about it. You are making your own decisions, and perhaps wishing someone would set you straight. School is just another form of prison, as a job is just a benign form of slavery. You're smart, and you've figured this out.
Unfortunately, this is LIFE. What you have to do in this prison/slavery world is salvage something for yourself. You have to learn to survive but keep your pride, because you will need it.
School subjects seem strange, but the PROCESS your mind goes through learning them, and more importantly, learning how to cope and conform in school and prepare your mind for tests is what you're there for. You desperately need to learn skills now for the rest of your life:
1. Getting your basic life organized-clothes, meals, schedule.
2. Coping with people: the other students, the teachers, the principal and counsellors.
It is MISERABLE to cope with people sometimes, but this is the starting point, and you're not expected to be perfect, and you can't learn these skills unless you get in there and do it.
3. Putting yourself and your mind FIRST in your life, in the midst of a crowd of people and many distractions around you.
4. Admitting you need help, and taking advice. Some things you're doing right now may be a result of your family situation, and your birth order, and the culture in general. But you'll have to deal.
5. Solving problems---this is the major skill that school teaches you. Every assignment, every lesson takes a lot of thinking and translating into your mind, it gets the process started. You need that work-out. You need all the mental work-out possible in those subjects assigned, somewhat because of the general knowledge, but MOST of all because you will need those survival skills later in life--. Now you can concentrate on preparation for survival and common-sense thinking---you have time. Later in your life, you'll have to do things quickly in order to survive, and it may be just one decision that saves you.
2007-04-16 04:08:37 · answer #1 · answered by papyrusbtl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-25 16:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you did here was complain. Explain to us why you hate your school or going to school in general. Once you know that, you can figure out a way to address that. Sometimes you have to bone up and roll with it. Life in the real world isn't going to stop to cater to you when your unhappy about something. Your going to get crappy co-workers, horrible work assignments and other issues throughout your life. You cannot just walk away from them and hope they go away, they will not. The reason your getting crap from your teachers is because your supposed to be in class. They don't care of you hate the subject matter or them or other kids in the class. You have a responsibility to be there, and finish the course. So when you don't show up for a few days then come walking in you get an ear full and rightfully so. You need to be more responsbile, you can start by addressing the exact reason you hate school or your school in particular.
2007-04-16 03:55:50 · answer #3 · answered by Sane 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is funny to see that you call yourself a smart person and then talk about all the school you skip. If you are half as smart as you think you are, you will realize that school is only for a short time and making the best grades possible will open all kinds of doors for you in the near future. Drop out and you will work for someone else all your life. Finish school and finish strong and you will decide what you do with the rest of your life. Sure it seems like a long road ahead just to get to graduation, but it is not as hard or as long as you think. Go back to school, get all the knowledge that you can, work to be the best, make others jealous about how well you do, then when you graduate, you can decide if you want to be a bum and talk to your ex-girlfriend at night. She will have left you for the guy that graduated and has a job, that is why I say ex.
2016-04-01 04:11:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u atleast know that dropping out is not an option, and sitting in classes gets boring is just a waste of time for some. Though don't get behind in studies...u know u still have to read the books to know the ****...unless ur into remote viewing and ****....anyway when ur not doin jack, jus try new things (like running, biking, some other sports, or arts, writing, animation, architecture...reading philosophy is always good to read at point in life just to confuse u a bit more) u never know but you might actually wanna get into some of those things.
2007-04-16 04:06:04 · answer #5 · answered by I Hsuya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I hate school as well and I don't do alot of my work and I didn't drop out because I understand that if I did I would not be able to have as good as a job. But try and make a schedule and stick to it like go to school do much work as you can the when you
get home do some of you home work for a certain amount of time then talk to your girl friend. And if any of your friends need help then help them with as much as you can but they need to do there own work if they are mking you do it all by your self thats not right but if they need help just try to help them.
2007-04-16 03:55:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You must have a reason for hating school. I had some great times in high school. Have you talked to a professional about this? I know you think it's a waste of time but someone whose not involved with you might be able to see something you can't.
2007-04-16 03:57:05 · answer #7 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe you should find out why you hate your school so much and evaluate from there. There is really no way out of it unless you really want no life afterwards. My suggestion is to find something to help you stay content while in school and try not to get depressed.
2007-04-16 03:54:11 · answer #8 · answered by Nobodies_Fool 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, you've probably already screwed yourself over. Most colleges will look at your attendance records before admitting you - my sister didn't qualify to apply to many schools because she skipped a few days a month.
2007-04-16 04:20:01 · answer #9 · answered by eri 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get lots of friends. Makes school worthwhile if you go to it to see friends.
Otherwise its boring.
2007-04-16 03:52:13 · answer #10 · answered by Dave 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋