A man in my church is cross dressing. What do i say to him?
2007-04-16 03:37:07 · 26 answers · asked by QANDAHL 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you say HER!!! & PTL Sister!
2007-04-16 03:40:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. If you are uncomfortable with him, then don't ask him anything about his sense of fashion. If you start asking about his cross dressing then he will assume that you are comfortable talking about it.
If you you are curious then tell him so,.. Say, I'm curious about your cross dressing.. Why do you do it? When did you start? Is it like an addiction? I suspect that he will be used to these questions and may enjoy talking about it.. If he brushes you off then you've lost nothing. I suspect that if you show some admiration in this clothes then he may suspect that you have a cross dressing side yourself. If you get to know him better and you're interested, ask him if he would help you dress up, just to see what it's about.
2007-04-16 14:31:20 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him as you would any other person. People who cross-dress do not stop being a part of the human race.
2007-04-16 04:12:04 · answer #3 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-29 16:05:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice dress? What do you say to women who cross dress? What do you say to men who don't cross dress?
Although, it is church, so I may be talking to irrational ears.
2007-04-16 03:40:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hello is pretty polite. Or you could if the clothes he's wearing were designed by a certain fashion house (you decide which one).
2007-04-16 08:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by jasgallo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk normally. The street etiquette rule is always refer to an indiviual in the gender they represent.
2007-04-16 04:38:01 · answer #7 · answered by wanfuforever 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should approach each person as individual. the fact that you're asking this means you don't have problems with what -she- does, or you wouldn't care if you would offend -her- or not. sex and gender are not the same thing, and the way we represent ourselves, and the way we define our gender is the only thing other people should think of. if she had less masculine features, you probably wouldn't even notice which sex she was. try not to notice it anyway.
2007-04-16 03:54:49 · answer #8 · answered by tricky 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hello.
2007-04-16 10:42:35 · answer #9 · answered by selena d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Peace be with you. (then compliment the shoes, men never do that but women spend a lot of time on their outfits, so say) And nice shoes by the way.
2007-04-16 04:34:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is wearing a dress to church she is not cross dressing. she is transitioning and you should call her a her.
Think about it, would you wear a dress to a place like that unless you felt it absolutely nesesary (sp?) for your sanity?
2007-04-16 03:47:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋