ok heres tha hting... i like my ex's best firend and his friend knows... and my ex knows and says that he dont care... and his friend dont know if hed date me b/c u know, tha whole bestfriend/ex thing. but his friend has been trash talkin my ex lately and he doesnt belive anything my ex says about me... he knows me and knows nun of it is true... i really like him and ii think he like s me oto... hes just kind of shy and our friend says hes afraid of gettin hurt... so yea... help anyone?
2007-04-16 01:37:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
here is the mentality of men if he truly likes u then if u go around or be close with another guy he will think that u like that guy. then his ego or shyness will go off and he will tell u that he loves u.
here is what u have to do.
go and find a friend who can understand ur situation. then in front of ur lover act like u r in love with the friend u told that he will help. as u do this ask ur lovers friends to tell him that if he dosen't tell his love then it will be too late. in this fear ur lover will tell u that he loves u.
this worked out for me and for 10 of those who asked the same type of question in yahoo!
2007-04-16 01:48:32 · answer #1 · answered by bandaruvamsi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your ex is a jerk for saying those untrue things about you to the guy you like you can tell he doesn't want you to 2 be together but its not up to him you should both act of how you both feel about each other if yous like each other then i say go for it!!!
Good Luck!!!
2007-04-16 01:57:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, is better not to like or date your ex's best friend. Because your ex may tell him how he ever taste your body and that could make you feel cheap. just move on and go for others guy.
2007-04-16 01:44:47 · answer #3 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm bored with folk questioning that they might't date somebody basically because of the fact their pal has. in case you like the guy then go forward. in the experience that your pal would not like that, then she's no longer the type of competent pal.
2016-10-22 07:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, but it's never a good idea to date your ex's best friend.
2007-04-16 01:41:14 · answer #5 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, the 'rule' that is usually applied which is don't date your ex's best friend or friends....you wouldn't want him dating your best friend especially...not cool*
If you and his best friend like each other..and he's come to realize that your ex is full of it...he may be willing to hook up with you. I still say..just be his friend.......not worth it to go out with him since he is still your ex's friend.
Goodluck*
2007-04-16 01:42:19 · answer #6 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not ok becuz you might ruin their friend ship and you will be the cause of a ruined friendship and he will be affect becuz him and his friend aren't friends,but if he like s you its your choice.good luck
2007-04-16 01:47:53 · answer #7 · answered by LaLa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure its cool
2007-04-16 02:09:14 · answer #8 · answered by anthony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋