i just found womens underwear in my washing and not mine size?

Question

i live with my husband and two kids who are 4 and 24 months we dont have guests stay over i dont wash other peoples clothes

Answer 1

Well they always say go with your gut instinct........check it out thoroughly. Don't say anything to him quite yet. You first need to investigate. Check your cell phone bill and see if there are strange numbers on it......especially repeated ones. The phone doesn't lie. Does he go out with friends who would cover for him? Can he leave his work at anytime or call to say he is working late often? Can he take a day off of work without you knowing it? Check out how many miles it is to and from his job. ...write it down, and check the mileage on his car for awhile.Are there any withdrawals from atm's you are not aware of? Check all credit cards that would give dates to resturants ect...... also check withdrawals from work credit unions if he has a savings through it. Does he work with the opposite sex ...that something could go on there? The internet these days make it very easy for people to hook up......also you could take the kids out to the store and leave a tape recorder on and hear if he is talking to someone on the phone when you leave. Sometimes men want more sex with their wives when they are cheating because the affair turns them on more. Has his attitude changed toward you lately? Push the passenger side in a position that would have to be moved for someones comfort in his car. If only you sit in that seat......why is it moved? Look for strange strands of hair on the car seat s that don't belong to you. Don't say anything to him that would make him be more carefull for now that he is aware you suspect something he will hide it better. Does his clothes smell like somebody elses perfume? I am sorry that I am telling you this, but in this day and age there are life threatening diseases out there. The world is out of control with escort services, prostitutes, and strip clubs making sex very accsessable for men to cheat. Society makes men believe they are doing nothing wrong when they can rent it for a day and not have to take it home. When I was younger And in my First marriage years ago I worked days and he worked evenings. A woman neighbor in an upstairs apartment would visit my ex-husband while I was at work. One day while I was home cleaning my house I decided to move my bedroom furniture around............I also came around to find a pair of strange womans underwear. They were not mine!!!! I washed them in scalding hot water and wore them to bed with him one night to see if they brought out a reaction in him. I asked him if he liked the new underware I had on.........Well, his face was a little strained and he was nervous. The next day while he was working I knocked on the apartment upstairs and handed them to her live in boyfriend..........as I handed them over to him I said.......I would appreciate you telling your girlfriend to quit leaving her underware in my apartment!!!!All hell broke loose that night and although they were caught red handed they both lied and denied it. Eventually years latter with four children we got a divorce. You never know what a man will do even when you think you know them. I saved those underware for years and the day I left I hung them on the mirror in his car! Good luck sweetie I hope there is a good explanation as to why and how they got there.

Answer 2

By any chance has anyone been over just to use the washer, or are these an old pair of underwear and you don't recognize them becuase you lost or gained weight. What ever the case is take a minute to breathe and think if the and if you can't come up with any logical explanation guess what? Your hubby needs to because something is totally wrong. He has either had an adult sleepover or an unauthorized playdate and some one forgot their toys (undies). YUCK
Stay strong.

Answer 3

Well, I am sure you would like to walk up to your husband and start wailing on him and then ask questions.Panties that belong to someone else does not just jump in to other peoples baskets now do they? But maybe just maybe there is an explanation to this. Ask your husband about the underwear as you hold them in front of his face. Look at his eyes and watch his body language. Maybe he is innocent. Then again, it sounds awfully bad. Let us know what happens huh? You could also pray about this before you confront him. Wouldn't hurt. (remember to stop the beating just before he passes out) hehe (Sorry, couldn't resist)

Answer 4

He is either cheating or he is a transvestite. Believe it or not, if he is a TV that is the better alternative. That could mean he is not gay, just turned on by wome's clothing. If the underwear is not big enough to fit him, however, you have the other problem. Speak to your husband about the underwear, see what he says.

Answer 5

I have had this happen twice. Once with my present husband. HE found MENS underware that were not his and he threw a fit. I swear I have no idea where they came from. We do not share a washer or dryer with anyone and have noone at our house except us, EVER. It seems very unbelievable, but they did not come from anyone i know.
My sister had the same exact thing happen to her. Don't assume anything, ask him about them and listen to your heart.

Answer 6

have you had any female relatives staying around your place? did you accidentally pick someone elses underwear up at the laundromat? if not, then its time to have a talk with your significant other. but then again, why would a guy bring women's underwear home? nevermind.
maybe your guy is a cross-dresser and you don't know it yet.

or maybe your four year old found them somewhere and brought them home. what do they look like anyway? are they dirty? can i smell them? i want to ball them up and put them in my mouth. i'm such a dirty little boy, yes.....dirty....
BABY WANTS BLUE VELVET!

Answer 7

I say it's pretty self explanatory... However, I found women's panties in the pocket of my husbands old coat and went on a rampage. It turned out that they were an x's undies and I blew up over something that happened years ago.. He just forgot that they were in his pocket all that time ago.

Answer 8

That happened to me. I share a washer and dryer with 12 other people. It happens sometimes. You didn't mention if you have a private or public laundry. We can't really answer without those details. Don't be suspicious without the facts, love.

Answer 9

Its the underwear gnomes. They go all over the world switching peoples undies.

Answer 10

if there not yours whose are they.do you think your husband is cheating on you.show your husband the under wear tell him were you found them and ask him do he know who they belong to. most likely he's going to say he don't know but you can tell by a persons reaction weather there lying or not .if he looks like he's lying .you better keep a close eye on him from now on.