And why must they insist of telling you off via text using l337 speak?
2007-04-15 23:35:52 · 7 answers · asked by Tongue 'n' Grooving 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Dump 'em. Why waste your time on a jerk?
2007-04-15 23:39:50 · answer #1 · answered by Alice K 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he's treating you in this form then he isn't a reliable guy. If he has slapped you at this early degree of the relationship (and not after 20 years of marriage and rigidity) then think of what he might do after 20 years of marriage and the stress of infants. don't be fooled that merely by way of fact he's extreme high quality to you at present and lower back that he's a reliable individual - there's no longer a single guy alive this is a hundred% undesirable yet you could desire to draw the line someplace - people who act like this must be seen undesirable. you should merely end with him in case you pick to interrupt up with him. You should be satisfied. enable him down gently yet you should be company or he will convince you in any different case. He won't kill himself, this is incredibly no longer likely. he will merely discover another poor woman to traumatise. My sister had an extremely comparable adventure. She theory the guy replaced right into a reliable guy too yet he finally beat her so badly that she had to spend the night in wellness middle, he might desire to honestly have killed her had she knocked her head interior the incorrect place - it does ensue. i could no longer recognize her face by way of fact he hit her such various cases. have confidence me it makes no distinction whether he's basically a reliable individual or no longer, if he has an anger issue and is violent he might have the ability to killing you so get out mutually as you nevertheless can and you haven't any longer have been given infants with this guy.
2016-12-26 09:48:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people change through time and sometimes as you get older friendships drift apart so its not really about sticking around as people change it is inevitable that you will drift apart don't feel bad or if you want to save the friendship talk to him and tell him he is being a jerk. Maybe he doesn't think he is being a jerk and until someone says to him he will never know. good Luck
2007-04-15 23:45:55 · answer #3 · answered by smitters06 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm going to need more details on how is a jerk now. 4 years is a lot of time to throw away. i'm assuming you've invested a lot in the friendship, so i wouldn't want to say anything until i know just a little more.
2007-04-15 23:46:02 · answer #4 · answered by EchoHound 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you're going to ask me, i would definitely stick with him.. knowing that she/he is trusting you he/she would also think that you understand him.. if you're a good friend, you should tell her/him the problem.. let her/him realize the situation, but let her/him feel that no matter what happened you will always at his/her side.. tell all your thoughts in a way he/she would understand your feelings.. get it? good luck and god bless
2007-04-16 00:00:28 · answer #5 · answered by raineyen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if they are rude, inconsiderate, boring, obnoxious, untrustworthy, dishonest, uncaring, disrespectful etc....think about this...would you want THAT for a close "mate" as you put it?
Not I!!!
2007-04-15 23:39:22 · answer #6 · answered by ladyk 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dump him if you have to...
2007-04-15 23:38:54 · answer #7 · answered by AdultMALE 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋