Last night I was listening to the radio at work and Don't Stop Me Now by Queen came on the radio, I smiled and said to the room (one other person - my senior was present) in general. "You know, I once sang that song to someone who wanted me to go out on a date with her."
My boss was ... surprised .... to say the least ... "Her????? Are you a lesbian?"
I denied it, several times. but ...... I keep thinking that it might be nice to be in a woman's arms.
2007-04-15 22:02:55 · 25 answers · asked by elflaeda 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
a woman asking you out doesnt make you gay
having thoughts or fantasies about women still doesnt make you gay
lots of straight women are physically attracted or emotionally attracted to women
you might be bi curious
or you just might be a straight woman who gets a thrill from the fantasy
only being attracted to women does mean you are though
only you know the answer to this
2007-04-16 02:32:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 22:00:45 · answer #2 · answered by kostenbauber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wanting to be in a woman's arms doesn't make you gay. It just sounds like you fancy a cuddle from someone who doesn't necessarily want to get into your pants, since many men misinterpret any kind of physical affection as "let's have sex now!"
If you wanted to do more than that with a woman, yeah, you'd be at least bisexual.
2007-04-15 22:32:05 · answer #3 · answered by Wild About Harry 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"There is no easy way for someone else to determine what your sexuality is, after all your sexuality is your own personal issue and it does not have to be communicated to all people. In understanding your sexual orientation you must be comfortable with the fact that you are unique and how you feel about yourself is going to be different than how I feel about myself. You have to decide what your sexuality is for yourself, through asking yourself questions and experimentation. But don't feel pressured to box yourself into a sexuality or a course of behavior that you do not feel comfortable with!"
2007-04-15 22:48:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Going out with someone of the same sex, even sleeping with them does not make you gay or bi or straight, it makes you human. Humans are sexual beings and without all the religious and societal hang-ups we would be having sex with people we find attractive whatever their sex is.
If you need to label yourself at any stage, that is up to you, but don't let anyone do it for you. You are gay if you say you are but not otherwise. Explore yourself and your sexuality. Find out if you like it. If you don't, you don't have to do it again. Don't grow old saying "If only...".
2007-04-15 22:14:27 · answer #5 · answered by tentofield 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Many people aren't as honest as you, the majority of people have had at least a fleeting thought about their own sexuality. But they wont admit it. I think that your a perfectly normal human being.
2007-04-15 22:24:21 · answer #6 · answered by simon m 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Keep thinking & reading & eventually you may decide to date a woman. Follow your heart...don't be afraid to experiment! That's what being human is all about!
2007-04-15 22:57:09 · answer #7 · answered by maeveangel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lesbian Love vere beutiful, I watch sometime in back room of pub after closing, girls put show on, £5 each watch, I collect glass see for nossink, vere beytiful vere much turn on.
2007-04-16 01:35:41 · answer #8 · answered by petrovitch m 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just because you'r thinking about being with another woman does'nt mean you are a lesbian, just try it and see what its like, if you like it great if you dont at least you know now. good luck .
2007-04-16 10:16:06 · answer #9 · answered by chicfest81 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well u haven't really explained ur experiences or preferences, so I cant really comment.
But if thats what ur interested in or fancy givin it a try, then go 4 it!!!!
2007-04-15 22:11:42 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋