Is there anyone who is in a relationship or knows of someone in a relationship who is indian and white? if so how are things turning out? is it difficult or can it work out. please help me, i could really do with some advice
2007-04-15 21:53:18 · 15 answers · asked by YOLA 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It's not who you love, it's how you love. Do you actually love this person? Do you love them for who they are? Do you love their personality. These are the things that matter. Not race, not appearence, not other's opinions. I am, myself, in an interracial relationship, and we couldn't be happier. We are happier than we've ever been. I hope I helped you, and I wish you the best of luck. Don't worry about what other people think. Life is too short not to be with who you love or be unhappy.
2007-04-16 06:21:31 · answer #1 · answered by Andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Skin colour can just be one of the things that attracts us to the other person, however, it's superficial when one compares character, culture, and Spirituality.
I've been in this situation with a fellow Christian and one can love the person and share even beliefs, but as with any relationship, you've got to virtually adopt the other persons habits in simple things like cooking, hygiene, outlook...that's before you meet the relatives.
The problem now is that we no longer grow up knowing everyone in the village, if you get my drift. Who ever we meet and fancy is going to put on a show to get the outcome if they're into it...and that's were one needs to see past the bravado.
Is being part and package of another persons politics or religious goals and or lack of them going to create unity in the home or division?
2007-04-15 23:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can tell you is that it's your life, and your decisions... No matter what will be said on this forum today, will make any difference to your problem if you don't come to terms with it. Go ahead, look at your problem, (if there really is one,) it sound like indecision to me! and work out the solution best suited to you and your lover. Only the wearer knows where the shoe pinches, and all anyone else can do to help you,is to tell you to take the shoe off!
2007-04-15 22:20:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my gf is born in South Africa and considers herself south african but her backround is indian. She does look a bit indian but like a Nicole from the pussycat dolls indian...anyway it doesnt bother me much i love it..shes got nice dark skin...its not too dark just nice n brown and her face is really cute and so is her smile. We've been together for 6 months and we havent had that much problem with that...except if my parents find out they will shoot me...shes a girl plus dark skin!they will crack it. my parents arent racist but they want me to stay within my own race. Well anyway i think wen it comes to u and that person it woudnt be much of a problem but u mite face problems with society and loved ones.
Good Luck
2007-04-16 00:16:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend's mother is white, British, and she and her husband (my friend's father, who is Indian, a Bengali) has recently celebrated their golden wedding anniversary.My friend's father is a well known gynaecologist in Calcutta and her mother is his chief assistant.My friend is studying medicine too and her brother is an accountant.So...happy ,successful children and a good career and definitely a happy marriage.
So inter racial love can definitely work out...it depends on the partners' attitudes towards marriage and life.
Good luck.
2007-04-15 22:06:23 · answer #5 · answered by Sarmila 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend is from Sri Lanka and we have been together for 12 years. His family welcomed me with open arms. My family however are slightly different. My dad is so racist you wouldn't believe, so I haven't told my family about us. They have suspicions, but I know my family would not accept him the way his have accepted me, which breaks my heart. It's really sad knowing that we won't be able to invite everybody round when we have a bbq or a party, and I cry about this a lot, but I'm with the man I love and surely thats all that matters.
2007-04-15 22:01:04 · answer #6 · answered by livinfortheweekend 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from the Indians. Them Husbands are control freaks. It's do as I say or else. My friend is going through a bad break up with this Indain dude.
As far as being with someone just because they are from another race. All I can say is do what makes you happy. But I'm not going to lie, sometimes it's better to stick with your own.
2007-04-15 21:56:36 · answer #7 · answered by That Dude 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Inter-racial is probably the wrong term here. If there are problems they will be cultural. If both families are happy then there are no problems. "race" is a much abused term . There are no races of people, none that you can define anyway, but there are different cultures.
2007-04-15 21:57:57 · answer #8 · answered by tentofield 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah in ordinary terms your eye sight, in case you like somebody why is shade even a question. If the international became into blind might we even have racism? think of of ways stupid even seen race is...your shade is dependant upon the place in the international your ancestors lived according to climate and geographical area. So why can we even talk approximately race? Oh i understand why because of the fact the international is crammed with ignorant morons.
2016-10-22 07:17:59 · answer #9 · answered by juart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All is fair in love and war. I dated an Indian guy for a while and there was no issues with his race.
2007-04-15 21:57:00 · answer #10 · answered by Reece 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋