Here you go......
How many of you men need the atta-boy from your Lady You know for her tell you how proud she is of you or notice how well you do things etc?
And how many of you wish she understood you and how you feel?
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Ladies, how many of you need your man to really listen and not try to fix everything all of the time, you know like have the answer to everything. You just need him to listen?
And is it attractive to you to see your man cleaning up around the house?
2007-04-15 21:21:06 · 10 answers · asked by safetyusa 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I can't answer for myself… single too long.
But my father not only helped around the house, but he loved to cook (even made bread with a homemade yeast made from potatoes) at a time it wasn't cool for a man to do these things. His family made fun of him, but he was so secure with his masculinity, he didn't care. He was an amazing man… and I admired him GREATLY, as did so many others from all walks of life, rich and poor alike.
Sadly, my mother was lonely much of her life because she wished he would listen. So often, he never REALLY listened to her. Things she talked about frequently bored him, so he'd just read. Their relationship was an odd, but very, very loving one. They were together 61 years!! And they still held hands! I feel blessed to have known such wonderful, caring people.
And an Atta Boy is important! Whenever anyone does things we appreciate, we should remember to let them know. Too, too often we forget to tell each other how very important and dear they are to us... and sometimes we don't get the chance to make amends.
2007-04-15 21:44:41 · answer #1 · answered by Eudora 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm I don't know about the first question. I mean, it's nice if he can listen and also fix things! And if he can clean around the house that is attractive too!
2007-04-16 04:25:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
From a Ladies perspective..... to listen is far better, I like to fix my own problems....
Here is the mop honey... lol
2007-04-16 04:26:29 · answer #3 · answered by Leah 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i must 5 times wish and i very not patient
2007-04-16 04:26:32 · answer #4 · answered by jeffrey h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been single for a while but it would be nice to hear a thank you now and then.
2007-04-16 04:29:32 · answer #5 · answered by MichaelBuffy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should post this in relationships I think.
But goo luck.
2007-04-16 04:24:57 · answer #6 · answered by mauikittie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's been so long, I forget if I needed that...
2007-04-16 04:27:35 · answer #7 · answered by Son of a Mitch 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
me
i wish she understand me and how i feel
2007-04-16 04:24:47 · answer #8 · answered by Mag 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will never have a man. ;_;
2007-04-16 04:40:59 · answer #9 · answered by AxisofOddity 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes and no
2007-04-16 04:25:46 · answer #10 · answered by elmarroafamado 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋