sex before marriage?

Question

would u have it?

Answer 1

i've done it.. "test drive the merchandise before you buy it" just kidding!! just wanted to be funny lol i think it's perfectly fine for people to have pre-marital sex.. and i think that everyone should maybe even have a few partners.. just so you don't regret not ever knowing what else is out there.. because once you're married, you might always be curious!! i know there are some virgins till marriage that lead perfectly happy lives though, and more power to them!! anyhow, sex before marriage is a definite yes in my book.. sex is overrated anyhow.. i don't know, that's just my opinion..

Answer 2

Answers to this type of question seem to be pretty evenly divided. Sometimes the answers relate to religion, sometimes to family teaching, medical reasons, social pressures, whatever. You can find good reasons on both sides of the issue. Personally, I feel that sex should be considered as one form of communication. True, a very important and very intimate form of communication but one that every marital relationship should have. So if you go into marriage without any idea of how you will communicate in this very important way, you are taking a chance. Considering the abysmal success rate of marriage I would say eliminate all chances before taking that step. That means, learn to communicate fully before marriage rather than discover problems after.

Answer 3

Sex before marriage doesn't hold the stigma it once held..


Yes I did have sex before marriage... Infact I was 1 month pregnant when my husband and I married (we didn't know until after the wedding....)

In fact the first clue was on our honeymoon when I got sick on a rollercoaster, something I had never done before or since.... My husband jokingly said "You must be pregnant you usually have an iron stomach on rollercoasters."

I laughed it off ... I had been told I couldn't get pregnant again after cancer... and hadn't in the 6 years prior, since treatment ended...

Low and behold 2 weeks later we were looking at 2 pink lines on a stick.. In fact we did 4 tests because my husband kept saying "Do it again it might be wrong." I tested until I just couldn't pee again...

She is now 9 yrs old and a joy in our life along with our 19 yr old daughter and 17 yr old son (from my previous marriage)...

Answer 4

Have sex with as many different women as possible. Your mind will need the experiences to rely on many years from now you when you are married and bitter and have been relegated to pleasuring yourself in the shower.

Answer 5

Yes, but only if it was with someone very special. I would rather wait till marriage though.

Answer 6

Would you buy a care, new or used, without test driving it first? Been there, done that. How old are you?

Answer 7

To late for me man lol. if you love the girl your with then go for it but if you got morals and beliefs stick to them.

Answer 8

I did.

Answer 9

I would wait.

Answer 10

no don't