Well my dad pretty much ignored me and wasnt around until my parents got a divorce then i had to visit him every second weekend from 6-12. So yeah he would always call me names and say i was ugly and stupid and a *****, and a spoiled brat, and an @ss, and well yeah and then my mom got remarried and he would pull down my pants and spank me and like slam me against the wall and call me names and say i was ugly, and had an acne problem and etc. Then he also started commenting on my, lets say 'budding female figure' and my mom knew and didn't do anything. then well i had had it and moved in with my dad. He rarely gave me food, like twice a week tops, called me names, ignored me for hours, told me how i wasnt wanted, threatened to take me to an orphanage and yeah so then i moved back in with my mom cause she had gotten a divorce with "Randy" and now she has a new boyfriend, who moved in a month a go. He snoops around in my room daily, calls me names, and once grabbed my wrist and twisted it
2007-04-15 20:47:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
and i mean it hurt really bad...
So would that qualify as abuse, and what should I do?
*And i didn't deserve the physical stuff at all*
and my stepdad would always ask me if i thought he was sexy, and my dad would walk around in nothing but a pair of really tight underwear.
2007-04-15 20:48:09 · update #1
Not only does it sound like abuse, it sounds like neglect as well. YOu need foster care and should go right to the police.
2007-04-15 23:56:57 · answer #1 · answered by mikeae 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Yes, this qualifies as severe abuse. I know just how frightening it can be to ask for help, and how confusing this can be when you're put in a situation like this: Especially at your age.
Remember that none of this is your fault. Psychologically, your mother has a tendency to pick-up/date abusive men which is a result of her own problems.
This type of behavior is not a result of you doing anything wrong, but the mental disorders and need for control that these men have.
No one has any right to touch, harm, or punish you by these means.
I know this is hard, but you need to call your local police station and child protective services so that they can help you.
National Child Abuse Hotline: 1-800-4-A-CHILD.
Talk with an adult or a councilor at school if you can't easily access a phone.
I also provided a link for you, that explains how to get help and who else you can call.
2007-04-15 21:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by mroof! 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course that is abuse both physical and mental. All of those men are wrong and you can get help if you go speak to social services or the police. Obviously your mum has very low self esteem and no willpower to keep choosing these awful men so I think you need to go and get social services to help you, they can find you some foster parents, and ake sure these men dont get anywhere near you again.
Get help now
2007-04-15 21:07:14 · answer #3 · answered by cigaro19 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would be calling the police or Child Services and not posting on the net. People posting things like this on the net are usually looking for attention or just trying to get a rise.
2007-04-15 23:31:19 · answer #4 · answered by Georgia Preacher 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You should talk to your school counselor. I think you should be removed from this situation, even if it means going to live with an aunt, uncle, grandparents, so forth. You don't deserve to be treated that way. I think that you should try to remember that. Unless you don't discuss this with a trusted adult, things could get signifigantly worse. Please open up. Good luck hun. Hugs to you.
2007-04-18 19:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by Jessie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. How old are you?? Cant you talk to a teacher about this, or even go to the police?? Both your dad, and two of your mum's boyfriends, all did this to you?????????
I think that your mum isn't too great at picking her boyfriends is she? go and tell this to the police.
2007-04-15 21:11:01 · answer #6 · answered by chloe 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes it would. but why somnoe would post this on this site insted of just talking to the police about it insted i don't understand. Social sevices should be able to take care of anything wrong going on in the house hold.
2007-04-15 21:06:53 · answer #7 · answered by Stephanie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl , you really need to get help. This is ABSOLUTELY qualified as abuse . Go to a police station or something. But please don't just sit there and do nothing
2007-04-15 21:08:56 · answer #8 · answered by martinyrome 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to someone.. sorry to say but they sound like a bit of weird people.. they need something done to them.. that is like sick.. you are related to one of them. and your mom ex and boyfriend shouldnt even be aloud to touch you.. hun i would either call the cops or ss on them...
2007-04-16 02:07:41 · answer #9 · answered by playboybaby20088 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋