I saw my exhusband new girl friend and I told him he better take her back to the ZOO, because they don't allow Hippo's as pets. I told him he needed a wildlife permit to keep a HIPPO.
2007-04-15
20:39:22
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we are still legaly married are divorce is not final,prier to are separation he always called me fat and other cruel names,but to find out that his new girlfriend is only 20 yrs old and he is 46 yrs old he is old enough to be her father.
He got her to f___k another man while he watched,I guess that he can get what ever he wants to find out also they plane to do it again but with two guys next time.
he meet her on the phone chat lines where they talk dirty to each other, to me she is a SLUT for letting him talk her into doing this.
2007-04-16
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update #1
You are a woman scorned and its natural that you would feel anger towards him and his girlfriend. Saying things like that is not helping the situation. You need to realize that he is simply in LUST and not in LOVE. Its very hurtful to be where you are and I feel such a sadness in my heart for you, knowing how the betrayal and the anger make you swing from loving thoughts to murderous thoughts and back. THis is the very reason whay the bible says God hates divorce. THe pain it causes through one selfish action leaves many people around the selfish person bleeding including the wife.
WHat to do? Well All I can say to you is refrain from comments like this and hold your tongue and instead of giving in to feelings and emotions, decide to override them and act with dignity and integrity, no matter how hard the wrong feelings keep telling you otherwise. Now you just do things without giving them a thought, but later one regrets every action and wishes one had responded differently. So to avoid that happening take good advise from someone who did the same childish things and learnt the hard way, but was lucky enough to be given a second chance that has worked out better than can be imagined, but only once she chose to do things the right way!!!
Get the book LOVE AND RESPECT by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs and listen to the good advice in that book. It pulled me together again and will do the same for you. Its okay to be angry but just dont do silly things in your angry state of mind. You will regret them.
I pray your husband comes to his senses and that God will perform a miracle in your lives. God bless you.
2007-04-15 20:57:00
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answered by uniquechild 5
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Hmm.. Nothing quite like running another person down to make yourself feel better is there? Perhaps you should focus on the source of negativity within your own life, rather than picking on someone because they don't look the way you want. Of course if you are still in Junior High then keep it up, because its to be expected of you at or around that age.
2007-04-15 20:55:51
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answered by days_o_work 4
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Oh dear....lol.....Is she really a hippo or are you just saying that because you are jealous? If she really is a hippo, then I wouldnt be feeling too good about myself right now if he chose a hippo over you.....lol
2007-04-15 20:44:10
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answered by rightio 6
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Are you still in love with him or are you happy to be rid of his azz? If you're over it you should be happy for him. Him & his Hippo deserve each other. Now he's thinking you still want him and he's all that!
2007-04-15 20:44:09
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answered by Truth Hurts 5
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You said that because you're obviously still hurt and are wondering what he saw in her. But he is your ex and has the right now to date who ever he wants to. Why dont you move on and find the right guy this time. If he's a hunk you could flaunt him.
2007-04-15 21:59:09
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answered by Anonymous
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what's that tell you that he finds her personality more important than what you are going to think of her looks. Obviously she has something to keep his attention. Let me tell you from experience big girls and hippos have lotts of great qualities with alot less baggage. I think you need to work on what you are presenting to your next potential BF or you might just loose him to one of us fatties also
Happily married to a slender man for 11 years and going strong
2007-04-15 20:52:11
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answered by mtcfog 2
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you may in straight forward terms cope with this by using getting him out of your life and on no account looking lower back at him. I comprehend which you nonetheless have thoughts yet he would not. He lost them for you the 2d he grew to become to this different female. the sentiments are in straight forward terms one sided right here and you may desire to get counseling that might actually assist you over come them. This guy isn't authentic to all and sundry and you comprehend that. you get lower back into the international of the living and out of his international and the catastrophe in it!! he can no longer provide to you what he's incapable of giving to himself. He has no morals and sitting on his throne having 2 distinctive women human beings having babies for him and the two looking after him on the comparable time. i does no longer enable myself to area of his self conventional glorification. he isn't what he seems to be contained in the eyes of the two certainly one of you. he's a chilly heartless guy or woman working around with out cares and all the liberty contained in the international. he won't stand by using his lady pal and their toddler no extra desirable than he will stand by using you and yours. i'm sorry yet he desires to get a vasectomy and do the international and himself a choose. suitable desires to you sweetie...yet adult males like him in basic terms make me disappointed.
2016-10-03 01:36:23
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answered by puzo 4
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Kill them with kindness. Its bound to make things crazy between them. Living well is the best revenge.
2007-04-15 21:42:22
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answered by Anonymous
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So jealous you'd stoop to stupid jokes are you?
2007-04-16 00:12:49
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answered by Anonymous
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sounds like you still love this guy hon ??
2007-04-15 21:03:19
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answered by the_silverfoxx 7
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