Does this qualify as abuse?

Question

Well my dad pretty much ignored me and wasnt around until my parents got a divorce then i had to visit him every second weekend from 6-12. So yeah he would always call me names and say i was ugly and stupid and a *****, and a spoiled brat, and an @ss, and well yeah and then my mom got remarried and he would pull down my pants and spank me and like slam me against the wall and call me names and say i was ugly, and had an acne problem and etc. Then he also started commenting on my, lets say 'budding female figure' and my mom knew and didn't do anything. then well i had had it and moved in with my dad. He rarely gave me food, like twice a week tops, called me names, ignored me for hours, told me how i wasnt wanted, threatened to take me to an orphanage and yeah so then i moved back in with my mom cause she had gotten a divorce with "Randy" and now she has a new boyfriend, who moved in a month a go. He snoops around in my room daily, calls me names, and once grabbed my wrist and twisted it

and i mean it hurt really bad...
So would that qualify as abuse, and what should I do?

*And i didn't deserve the physical stuff at all*

and my stepdad would always ask me if i thought he was sexy, and my dad would walk around in nothing but a pair of really tight underwear.

Answer 1

wow honey...yes. that is abuse. Go to a local authority or something. Get help. Get out of there. I am so sorry for you. Wish I could be there and help....

Answer 2

Yes, this is abuse.

Tell your school counselor, the school police officer, your physician next time you get to see him/her, and call the Child Protective Service.

And if you really want to, call around to the homeless shelters to see if they'll take someone in that is your age. Your friends' parents may be able to foster you, too. How about grandparents or aunts/uncles?

I know one girl who kept running away and they finally made her a ward of the court.