2007-04-15 19:51:45 · 8 answers · asked by curlie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well if you care anything for him then quit thinking about him in any other way than just a friend ,,,, If he's taken then he's off limits where a relationship is concerned ,,,, If you care for him enough or like him the way you say then don't think of disrupting his life ,,,, Of course that doesn't mean you can't sit on the side lines waiting for something to happen between him and her ,,,, Give them enough time and it probably will ,,,, Remember though that friendships last allot longer than relationships ,,,, But were I you I wouldn't put my life on hold for anyone ,,,, There are allot of other fish in the pond so to speak ,,,, Go fishing and find some one that's fun and exciting to be with ,,,, It doesn't necessarily have to follow that you have to commit to any one really ,,,,
You'd be smart to try and get as wide a range of acquaintances as you can while you are still young ,,,, Don't be in such a rush ,,,, Find out who and what's out there before you get serious about anyone ,,,, This will enable you to make a wiser decision when you are ready for a more involved relationship later on ,,,,
Who knows ,,,, Tying yourself down too early just might cause you to miss meeting Mr Right ,,,,
Don't be in a hurry ,,,, Things will come right for you eventually and in their own good time ,,,, You just need to be patient ,,,,
Yoda told you this ,,,,
2007-04-15 23:16:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is taken, why crave for it, there are more guys/gals out there, mix around and you will find what you are looking for, and if the bestfriedn is meant for you, it will happen.
it is only normal to have feelings do not brood over it....mix around and you will get what you are looking for, initially it will be diffcult but time will heal everything...hope this advice helps.
2007-04-16 02:56:34 · answer #2 · answered by Freakout 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How would you feel if he were your boyfriend and one of his friends started hitting on him? Leave him alone until he is single, if you really care for him. Otherwise you will cause him a great deal of problems.
2007-04-16 02:55:45 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do not understand what you mean by "but he's taken". However, you can (when you two are alone) tell him about your feelings and I am sure, he will reciprocate.
Good luck and God bless..
2007-04-16 02:56:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he is taken then you will have to wait till he is free.
2007-04-16 02:55:29 · answer #5 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wait until he will be free.. just love him from a distance... its hard.... but that's is love...
2007-04-16 03:20:09 · answer #6 · answered by BEA 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's all in what you want and need.
2007-04-16 04:35:27 · answer #7 · answered by snoppy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's a really difficult situation ...
2007-04-16 03:35:57 · answer #8 · answered by raineyen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋