How can a person get over thier shyness and be more out there?

Answer 1

Remember that you can overcome your shyness if you associate with others and try to relate to others through dialogue and converstions If you are fund of reading, you can start by mentioning social issues, events, experiences, etc. If you are well verse in computer you can offer to teach to those who are beginning to learn the most elementary lessons on computer. You can call your friends and classmates and offer your little services to them. Do the best you can because time is precious. Don't allow idle moments to rule your life. Do something worth remembering and from which you will be proud of because you offer services to others. You will surely be rewarded and your shyness will disappear. Try and I will be praying for you!

Answer 2

Think about time---and how much of it you'll utterly waste if you don't learn to confront your own issues. So what if you fail? So what if you feel awkward? So what if you get embarassed? Realize NOW that any worthwhile goal ANYONE ever achieved was because they overcame their false notions. Shyness is a useless notion. You're only lieing to yourself when you say (internally) "I can't handle this, it's overwhelming, I'm not strong enough, etc." Try! Be bold once, just a little. Next time---be a little bolder a little longer. You have to exercise your will the same as you do your body.

Answer 3

It feels incredibly hard, but the truth of the matter is you start out with baby steps and move on until you've forgotten what it was you were shy about. In short, you push yourself a little bit more each day you feel up to it, give yourself times out when you're not, and so it goes.

Answer 4

I would say get out there an meet people. I have heard that shyness is a person thinking to much about themself. Its like being conceded because they are always thinking about what other people are thinking about them. YOu just have to get out there and learn to be comfortable around diffrent people.

Answer 5

Face the fact. Face the world. Generate your energy and unleash your courage. I was so weak in a past, i felt like a fool. Now that i can be more out there, yet not so out is due to what i just said. To be shy or to be brave is to depend on yourself. It's your body, your system, your mind. You do what you deem fit, and do not need to care less bout your fear.

Answer 6

You can get over shyness when you feel confident. I feel confident in some areas and there I am not shy. When I am out of my normal element, I am shy.

Answer 7

putting yourself in situations where you have to be more out there is probably a good start - you might even end up liking being more the center of the attention

if people ask you to go somewhere and do something, take them up on it, even if it's not the kind of thing you'd usually go for - if you don't push your boundaries, you won't ever grow past where you are now

Answer 8

Do it in small baby steps and one step at a time. Start with being more open or talkative with people that you feel safe with - family members. Then, try the same steps with friends or acquantances. That would be my suggestion.

Answer 9

They just have to allow themselves to have fun and let go of caring what other people think.
I was really shy until I just started living optimistically instead of pessimistically.

Answer 10

you basically have to just say f*ck it and get over your self. Im quite shy my self, but i just decided to be more out there. Its hard to do. Good luck.