Of The P word...she says I need to slow down, and be gentle...
2007-04-15 12:54:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
OK, so slow down and be gentler.
Be open to coaching; she knows what she's feeling better than you do. You might want to get under the covers (depending on room temp and comfort levels with a flashlight and a mirror, and have her introduce you to where all her parts are. Knowing what's where is half the battle.
Meanwhile, her outer and inner lips (labia majora and labia minora) basically form a "W" shape. Both sets meet at the top but not the bottom (at least as far as your going). At the bottom is her vagina, which may or may not be partially blocked by her hymen if she's a virgin (no penile penetration) or it's got a wider opening than you are big). At the top of her inner lips is her clitoris aka clit. It may or may not be hooded, but it's erectile like a penis, so it will eventually show up.
Variety is the spice of life here! Lick up and down the valleys of the W between her i/o lips. Flick your tongue next time up and down. Flick across. Flick over the top. Flick or lick her clit, but don't spend a lot of time there--it will go numb if it's over stimulated. Write the alphabet with your tongue across the whole of her. Lick the opening of her vagina; stick your tongue in as far as it will go. Finger her vagina while your tongue is busy with the rest of the stuff.
If you can find her G-spot, it's about right behind her clit, in her vagina, feels wrinkly like a peach pit, and you should be able to reach with your index or middle finger. Whoa! Lady on the ceiling!
Good luck, uh licking!
2007-04-15 13:47:10 · answer #1 · answered by Paul P 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Listen to her...Pretend you're not at the drivethrough scarfing down on McD's, but at a gourmet restaurant where you need to savor each taste. Gently gliding your tongue over each morsel. Paying attention to what gives the most satisfaction. Too much stimulation or too rough just desensitizes it and then no real pleasure is obtained.
2007-04-15 13:15:48 · answer #2 · answered by deadsqirrl 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Cut out the fast food. Savour each taste. Take the time to enjoy every moment of your meal.
2007-04-15 13:39:11 · answer #3 · answered by Maple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to her needs, i agree with her slow movements give most pleasure.
2007-04-15 13:25:29 · answer #4 · answered by Cinderella 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she just told you what to do, soooooooo just do it! learn how to take direction
2007-04-15 13:13:06 · answer #5 · answered by Cornell is Hot! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋