I had sex with him only one time {took my virginity} but he has a wifey at home. He says he loves me but I dont know what to do? I dont noe his wifey, but she doesnt come to the block and he really doesnt chill with her like that. Waht should I do?? Oh yeah but he doesnt want me to talk to any other guy? wat should I do???
2007-04-15 10:53:02 · 13 answers · asked by Lilly179 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Walk away from him and don't look back. Don't return phone calls, don't answer emails. He is a cheater and he is using you. He wants to control who you see, without making any commitments to you himself.
He is bad news, and he is evil. You deserve better. You deserve a relationship with a man who is honest and respectful.
2007-04-15 11:17:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Girl, I feel so bad for you that you gave away such a precious gift to a man like that. He surely did not deserve that from you. Listen, any man that will cheat on his wife is not worth his weight in cow dung...let alone gold. When people are married and it is not working, they should leave them or make it work, and then, and only then, look for someone else. He is dishonoring you and his wife a great deal by his actions. He will not leave his wife for you, and even if he did, how could you ever trust that he would not cheat on you eventually? Run as fast as you can in the other direction. He'll be hard to shake cause he was your first, but shake him off and make your second one really really count!!
2007-04-15 18:01:02 · answer #2 · answered by Lifelearn 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to be with someone who betrays the most sacred of relationships, the one between a husband and wife ? He seems controlling by not wanting you to talk to other guys. I have seen this situation before and it never turns out well.
P.S. if his wife finds out she'll forgive him and be out to destroy you. I would stay away from him.
2007-04-15 18:01:10 · answer #3 · answered by Suzy-Q 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run, you are only asking for trouble. You might think you love him, but he obviously does not. If he did, he would settle his marriage issue first, then begin a relationship with you; you are the third wheel right now. Good Luck
2007-04-15 17:58:59 · answer #4 · answered by Adult actress 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Didn't you just post that you were pregnant by your best friends husband. Are you just trying to prove how unintelligent you truly are? If you are sleeping with a married man I truly doubt you are a virgin a pregnant virgin hmmm....
2007-04-15 18:51:05 · answer #5 · answered by Mandie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk to him anymore!!
Expecially if he has a wife! Why won't he allow yo to see other guys, when HE has a wife?
If I were you, I'd give him a piece of my mind. I'd go over to his house when you're sure that his wife is home, and tell her. Then I'd break up with him.
2007-04-15 18:12:59 · answer #6 · answered by Candy Parker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is taking full advantage of you, dont let him.
He wants his cake and icing too.
U need to drop him flat and find someone that is not
attached to another woman.
U not in love with him either, it is just lust and it will
go away.
Tell him to GET LOST________he is a user.
2007-04-15 17:58:22 · answer #7 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on too many guys like him
2007-04-15 17:59:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run, then go get a checkup
2007-04-15 17:58:10 · answer #9 · answered by ob10830 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should move on wit ur life cuz, hes not gonna leave his wife.
2007-04-15 17:57:25 · answer #10 · answered by blackoceanview 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋