2007-04-15 10:34:23 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If the both of you are ok with that, then there shouldn't be a problem. As long as you both are happy that is all that matters.
2007-04-15 10:40:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi.. you are the only one who can answer that question. You have to speak to your husband about this. If you do not feel satisfied, only you and your husband can make the changes.
Everyone is different and every situation is different. People have their own version on what is enough. The longer the relationship the closer you will be with each other. Not sure about your work schedule or kids or anything. That does play a big part. Is there a lot of stress regarding money??? All plays a big part.
Sit down & think about the things you want and need. Think about your life together and have a chat with him. Let him know how much you love him and you want to spend more intimate quality time with him.
You can create quiet time together. Use your imagination. What turns him on? What setting does he like? What does he like you to wear, say, do, eat.....etc.... All those things play a part. Maybe just light candles, give him a massage and see what happens. Make the time to be together & have quiet time together.
But seriously, you need to talk to him and discuss your feelings and your desires.
God Bless
2007-04-15 17:44:32 · answer #2 · answered by italianbronxgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a question you have to ask yourself and your husband. Once a week would be fine for some couples maybe too much for others and not even close to enough for still others. Every relationship is different. The important thing is for you and your husband to talk about it and strive to do what will keep you all happy. Whether we like to admit it or not sex is a very important part of a marriage and if it is not right a lot of other things go wrong.
2007-04-15 17:41:54 · answer #3 · answered by crownliftman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear booobi,
Good ,happy sexual family life depends mainly on the wife as she can attract the attention of her huband to see her always as the most beautiful woman in the world . She can dominate his love and his heart through a kind kiss,passionate feelings,sweet looks and words. She should be romantic , warm, sensitive and choose the most suitable for everything . in this way she can encourage him to enjoy sex two or thre times weekly but I think it shouldn't take the form of routine work.
2007-04-15 17:53:45 · answer #4 · answered by Aziz A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh know you tell him to get in the bedroom and rock your world girl. My husband works alot so we dont see much of each other at least 4 times a week for me. You make him give it up tell him to give you some lovin. Usually its the men wanting it all the time.
2007-04-15 17:41:18 · answer #5 · answered by hotmoma1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two feel it is enough, then it is. On the other hand, if one of you feels you need more then you need to take a look at that. If you two are happy the way things are, then to heck with everyone else. There are no rules. You make your own, but you both have to be happy with them.
2007-04-15 17:40:32 · answer #6 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really doesn't matter what we all think. It is your sex life, not ours, so if you think it is enough and he thinks it is enough, then it is enough. The problem only comes when one of you want more and the other one doesn't.
Sorry honey, this is one you will have to work out between each other, not through us.
2007-04-15 17:39:10 · answer #7 · answered by animal lover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no rule book on this!
If you're both happy with once a week, you're doing OK.
If either or you wants more or less, you folks need to talk about it between yourselves. No one else's opinion matters here!
2007-04-15 17:39:17 · answer #8 · answered by Paul P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my first marriage; everytime she walk by me;we had sex;and we had 8 sets of twins of all boys;like you need to get an appointment to have sex; any kids; go catch him in the shower;in the livingroom while reading;jump his bone everytime you get a chance;make love;not war;if i had you with me;you would never put on panties; best time is when you are on your period;yes;sex with your husband should be fun and excexting;if he not interested;honey hes getting soon.
2007-04-15 17:46:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants more....if he likes it and gets really into it when you 2 are having sex...then that means he would be happier if u gave him more...but if he gets annoyed and hes like, "ok lets get this started" or something like that in a bad tone, then that means lower down on the times having sex every week.
2007-04-15 17:40:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋