I didn't do anything but I feel as I'm the one on trial! I can't eat, sleep or anything. Any comments would be greatly appreciated!!
2007-04-15 10:30:07 · 19 answers · asked by ♥Tami♥ 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Of course you're nervous, honey. He assaulted you and now you have to see him again in a confrontational sort of way. You're safe in the courtroom. No one will let him hurt you physically, but still you're there and he's there in order to address the assault and what to do about it. That is a form of confrontation (or it seems like it is to me). Confrontation in a good way, but confrontational, nevertheless. Also, it may be emotionally painful for you. I know it's hard, but try to find some peace. You aren't on trial. You didn't do anything wrong and he certainly should have never, ever assaulted you. This is the way for you to legally stand up for yourself. Do you have a family member or a friend to go with you to court for moral and emotional support? I'd ask someone if you haven't already. If you do have to go alone, remember you aren't really alone. Your attorney, the police, the law are all on your side. If you know Jesus, he'll give you peace if you ask him for it and He's on your side. The Bible says "if God be for you, who can be against you?". I'll be praying for you.
2007-04-15 10:39:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right, you didn't do anything wrong, he did! But you are still going to have to face him, that is what the nerves are from. Just think of it this way....you are hopefully stoping him from really hurting or killing someone, and showing him your are not going to be his victim. Maby you should take a sleeping pill or a nice bath to relax , and when you get there remember he is the bad guy, you are the stronger one...and maby think of him in a pink frilly teddy so he doesn't seem to be so intimidating. and look him in the eye so he knows he isn't the winner, you are!
2007-04-15 17:35:30 · answer #2 · answered by Merisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a Deep breath and know that you are doing the right thing, sadly you experienced it but maybe whoever the Next is won't have to. Be sure to bring along someone you trust and can be of comfort to you. While the intimidation and fear can be stressful, so is letting it slide by knowing he's out there to do it without consequence.
best of luck!!
2007-04-15 17:33:27 · answer #3 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe if you fear for your life you are allowed to not be in the same room as the other person. Even regarding a court date. They do that here in CA regarding divorces. If abuse was in the history, they do not allow you to be in the same room and if you are they have a court an armed deputy supervising you at all times for your protection.
2007-04-15 17:33:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep..courts treat women unfairly...just answer short and to the point..in cases like this, the judges are less lenient on the assaulter..
2007-04-15 17:34:28 · answer #5 · answered by metoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all expected. I know it sounds easy, but isn't. Try not to worry. If you didn't do anything wrong, you'll be OK.Just be true to yourself. You're not the scumbag of a looser who uses their fists to solve things. I really hope it works out OK for you. Good luck.
2007-04-15 17:36:46 · answer #6 · answered by ivenoimagination 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The second answer has it right. Thinking of Rory Emerald always brings happy thoughts. Best of luck to you!
2007-04-15 17:34:23 · answer #7 · answered by Tony M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what you're feeling is normal. It will be over soon. In the meantime, pray about it...that always helps me feel better. God bless. Let us know how things turn out, k?
2007-04-15 17:35:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just nervous about what the outcome will be and going to court itself is always a pain. Have faith that justice will be done.
2007-04-15 17:33:15 · answer #9 · answered by Cuppycake♥ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you have a women's shelter in your area , call them . Someone will be glad to go with you and give you emotional support . Good luck
2007-04-15 17:34:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋