2007-04-15 10:08:10 · 12 answers · asked by tom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do not open this door to her and find out. Keep it closed forever.
2007-04-15 10:13:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her that you are a one-woman man, you are happily married and you wish here the best of luck.
THEN, you should tell your wife that this is what happened and this is what you told her.
If you tell your wife BEFORE you tell your ex-fi to beat it, your wife could wonder "what is he telling me this for -- does he want me to decide for him?"
Be a one-woman man, and you will have a great evening with your wife when you tell her you slammed the door on the ex-fi.
Tell her about this AFTER you told the ex-fi to beat it, and there will be no room for doubt.
Believe me, the ORDER you do these two steps in is crucual to getting the outcome you desire.
Good Luck.
2007-04-15 11:29:35 · answer #2 · answered by emagidson 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well perhaps u better ask her what does she want and why is she calling u. First of all does she know that ur married if not tell her. If so tell her not to call and ur married now the only woman u should be conversating with is ur wife, mom, and daughter. have a nice day.
2007-04-15 10:13:38 · answer #3 · answered by tracy r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not want unnecessary misunderstanding from your wife, let her know about it. Do not hide anything from her cos trust is very important in a marriage. Invite your wife along if your ex asks you out.
2007-04-15 20:56:01 · answer #4 · answered by Charlyn Lim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what I would do.before things get out of hand and you do something stupid like having one last fling for the road, and destroying your relationship with your wife, I think you should first tell your wife, and then ask your ex fiance why she called and what it is that she wants. I you truly love and respect your wife, that's exactly what I would do.
2007-04-15 10:18:52 · answer #5 · answered by Alfie333 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not happy with her life now and remembered how much happier she was back then or mabe ur a daddy and dont know it or both. Either way ask for a blood test. lol
2007-04-15 10:13:35 · answer #6 · answered by helives11_112001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants trouble. Since your married ignore her if you want to stay married. After all she is your ex for a reason.
2007-04-15 10:16:20 · answer #7 · answered by DJS1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tom, never trust that girl as she is easily changed and she is only fond of lust . If you resume that correlation , I think you would suffer as you will never respect or value yourself
2007-04-15 10:17:28 · answer #8 · answered by Aziz A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but for your sake I'd tell my wife and then ignore the ex.
2007-04-15 10:11:46 · answer #9 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she just wanted to say hi...to see what u have been up to...
alot of people like to keep in touch..
just politely tell her you are happily married... and then tell her good bye..
2007-04-15 10:12:37 · answer #10 · answered by luvutaz1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋