O.K. so I have a boyfriend and I have never been with a girl but me and my bf watch pornos and I only like seeing girl on girl action. He says I must be gay but it just arrouses me. If the opportunity(to be with a girl) was right in front of my face I am not sure what I would do!
2007-04-15 09:42:01 · 14 answers · asked by Lexy 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well I'm bi and I can tell you straight up you are def bi sexual. I think most likely right now though you are only bi-curious... but you have the vibe to want women. I think girl on girl is hot. I have previously had sex with women but chose to stop doing it now I have decided that I only want to hold women, and be close to them vs having sex with them. It's all up to you if you want to have sex with a woman in real life, my suggestion to you is to take it slow though... maybe some holding, kissing, and then sex if you both desire to do so. Another way would be for you and your boyfriend to fantasise about having sex with another woman by simply closing your eyes and pretending to be having sex with another woman while he's eating you out :-) See if that excites you, if it does it's probably time to start searching for a woman you can enjoy
2007-04-15 11:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Human sexuality is oh so complicated. You may have a phase in your life where you want the same sex. It's better to love than not love at all. Sexual desire is normal and seems to go in all and any direction, it's just been tamed by culture to make heterosexuality the norm. Do what is natural for you and as long as you hurt no one be yourself. A disagreeable family or friends don't have to live your life so they can stay out of it.
2007-04-15 09:49:37 · answer #2 · answered by purplepeace59 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Straight with gay tendencies is more accurate. Unless you mean you'd like to have sex with a man and a woman at the same time. Then you are being bisexual.
2016-05-20 23:27:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you might be bi, but you might just like watching lesbian porn. I have friends who are with men who only like lesbian porn. You might be bi, but if you've never wanted to act on it, maybe you just enjoy watching beautiful women go at it. Have you ever felt a strong attraction for another woman? That might help you learn discover if you are bi. Either way, I don't think you should worry too much about labels. Sexuality is very complicated. :-)
2007-04-15 10:08:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking us? If you have sex with males and females then you bi-sexual tendencies, there's no grey area.If you fantasize, then it's just what is pleasing to your eye and your mind. Porn doesn't determine your sexuality or preferences.
2007-04-15 09:46:35 · answer #5 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just because it turns you on doesn't mean that your gay. your probably bi-curious. you should try being with a girl and see how you like it.
2007-04-15 09:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by Toni 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you are telling us is if you think other of the same sex are beautiful yes they are no you are not bi sexual
2007-04-15 09:45:08 · answer #7 · answered by Linda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to what Purplepeace said above.
She has it on point, without being esoteric about it.
2007-04-15 09:55:01 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could be bi-curious, but if girl on girl arouses you then you're probrally bisexual.
2007-04-15 11:46:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're just curious and there is nothing wrong with that.
2007-04-15 09:46:03 · answer #10 · answered by Reta♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋