guys...
when recieving an hj, what do you like?
hard/soft...
slow/fast...
what about after you come?
any advise is great! thanks
2007-04-15 06:50:19 · 10 answers · asked by hill <3 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Hill <43,
Talk to each other before you and your partner well before do this exactly how he'd like you to proceed. If your not inhibited or do not feel uncomfortable concerning his request ask him to speak to you as you give him a hj. In a loving sweet tone as you proceed.
Generally speaking young men prefer very soft and slow strokes. When using lubrication on your palm, KY Jelly or Astroglide stroke the penis concentrating on the top 3/4 and roll your wrist around the glans (head, end) a few times (3-4) times every two or three strokes. Use lots of lube.
Talk to him before he has an orgasm or cums as you call it. Most men want the pace and grip faster and tighter concentrating on the end with a well lubricated hand at this time.
Continue stroking well after you feel the warm splashes of male sperm on your hand. Wipe it aside with your thumb and put your lips around the head looking into his eyes while moving your tongue rapidly fore and aft beneath it and suck as much vacuum as you can while rapid firing your tongue benieth the penis head.
As you grasp the base of his penis move your thumb and first finger toward your face and lower your mouth toward your hand. Soon you should be resting your thumb palm and hand at the base of his penis as you lick around the head of his shaft and continue all the way down licking and sucking the backside of the shaft as you would a popsicle. Return to the head of his shaft with your warm lips rotating your head side to side and back and fourth. As you get used to it you 'll be able to rotate your mouth in a circle with the end of his penis inside your mouth. That motion will drive him off the deep end again.
Have fun planning and playing.
Demand that he wear protcction if he enters your mouth with his penis.
2007-04-15 13:00:23 · answer #1 · answered by Country Boy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soft and slow
2007-04-16 12:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by Pencil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, personally i like it soft and slow if its ment to be romantic but if its out of the blue i would love it hard and fast, when its slow and soft it takes longer to ejeculate so its more pleasurable, but if its fast and hard its like a rolercoaster ride when your going down except at the end your ejeculating
Hope it helped.
2007-04-15 14:20:31 · answer #3 · answered by crazycake7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of slow stroking, Lots of touching. Lots of squeezing. After coming, a warm wet washcloth or warm wet mouth to clean it up.
2007-04-15 16:09:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
soft and slow and I like to be kissed there.
2007-04-15 18:25:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
soft and slow
2007-04-15 14:43:53 · answer #6 · answered by nyzmostwanted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like it nice and slow at the begining but as the please builds up and my excitment increases, I then like it to become a lot faster and then finish off with a hand-job or a sixty-niner.
2007-04-15 14:51:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
slow take your time
2007-04-15 14:54:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear we guys want hugs soft and slow
after we come we want love and care and gentel touch
the great advice is ( be honest with urslf and ur bf)
2007-04-15 14:18:34 · answer #9 · answered by filo2000hh 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
all of it sounds good....and after i come....u can lick it up
2007-04-15 14:53:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋