Why are females so mean to eachother?? I remember when i was in elementry school and all the girls got along and the boys were known to have "cooties". i have a problem i guess. when i was in elementry school i was always outgoing and everyone knew me like that! Then when i got into 8th grade i had to stay back in another town because i moved. When i went to another school all the girls and boys loved me and the girls kind of got jealous that i went out with a lot of boys and they liked me so much! I ended up stuggling that year and as i got into high school everything got worse! i had a lot of friends, but people just hated on me and i never got why?? I ended up getting in so much trouble fighting with people i got kicked out..then i ended up quitting school because i had so many problems with people. now im going to be 18 years old and almost 19 weeks pregnant! Some friends support me, but a lot of people ( friends & enemies) hate on me even MORE! Why are GIRLS so MEAN to eachother??
2007-04-15 05:20:55 · 13 answers · asked by CvMamii 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Girls are mean to each other because of jealousy. Some girls want what other girls have, and if that girl doesn't have what she wants, she gets jealous. There is no time for jealousy and all girls should realize that. It is a part of life unfortunately, and it is a competition. It is a competition of looks, personality, who has a better looking boyfriend, finances, the list goes on and on. I ask myself that question all the time. I am a nice person and I don't have time to get jealous of anybody! Girls should learn how to accept each other for who they are and watch out for one another. Continue to find friends who will not get jealous of you. Let this particular experience make you an even stronger person. Hope this helps and don't worry about jealous girls. Good luck.
2007-04-15 05:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know my 17yr daughter always says "i hate such and such a girl" and there reason behind is either "because i just do" or no reason at all. We're quick to judge. Think about it: The first time someone you've never seen before walks into a room, you instantly judge them. She looks mean, her jeans don't fit right, look at her hair. It's usually a negative comment because girls tend to see the flaws in other people before anything else. Then this new person speaks and their voice/what they're saying causes you to make another judgment. It's just the way the female mind works. We tend to see the negitive side to situations, people and ourselves rather than the postives.
Sometimes girls are mean over jealously and sometimes it's just because their first impression was never corrected. There's a million reasons why girls are mean. They were mean when i was in high school 30 years ago and they're mean now as my oldest daughter goes through high school. it's just part of life.
Best wishes and hope all goes well with your pregnancy.
2007-04-17 15:04:25 · answer #2 · answered by Carrie R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are mean to each other because they are jealous of each other. Girls just want to be like models and they hate girls that take the boys "off the market". It's just a girl thing really. Hope that helps
2007-04-15 05:30:31 · answer #3 · answered by chipmunkcheeks95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of girls envy other girls, or maybe think they are better then other girls. I don't know why we're all so mean, I'm a nice person, but, I'll be the first to give someone attitude if I feel that they are coming at me with one. I think it has a lot to do with people thinking they are better then everyone else though...
2007-04-15 05:27:54 · answer #4 · answered by Ramon's Wifey 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy plays a role in that. I'm lucky to have good female friends that don't hate on other people, or me! Just stay away from those kind of girls, and you'll be alot more happier, and stress free.
2007-04-15 05:34:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is that he's conserving you as a backup lady pal, somebody to have the closeness of a woman pal yet without the actual portion of the relationship. sounds like he became into having some relationship issues and went to a chum to talk approximately it. regrettably, it additionally sounds like he desires to make confident his backup is around in case he calls it off with the different lady. for sure, he's on the component of you, yet even in the case that the present relationship with this lady would not artwork, it incredibly is plenty from any assure that he would be finding to start one with you. the only way you will ever discover out the actual answer is to tell him the way you experience. different than which you will proceed to torture your self and ask your self what's up. definite it ought to influence your friendship, yet you will shop your self a superb type of heartache via mustering up the braveness to tell him now, particularly than 5 years later when you have waited and waited for sign.
2016-10-22 05:41:22 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know some girls are jealous (especially since the guys would pay attention to you), and some girls (generally speaking) have bad self-esteem and being mean to you makes them feel better.
2007-04-15 05:49:15 · answer #7 · answered by WithLove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is due to jealousy. Everybody wants to be viewed as being better than the next person. Sometimes it is better to not know anyone or to find new people to hang out with than to be around people who aren't nice to you.
2007-04-15 05:31:13 · answer #8 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life seems to be all about competition these days...being the better person, having better things, is important because people are judged so badly on the way they act what they do the things they have and other things, but thats life, and people are only haters because they want to have what you have, or because they want to lash out their anger on someone and you end up being the victim...
2007-04-15 05:28:11 · answer #9 · answered by Gordita de Oro 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy... is the main thing.. if the ones who hate u now... were really never your friends.. you will find your real friends in who stands by your side.. good luck with ur baby ..... and just be careful who your trust..
2007-04-15 05:29:11 · answer #10 · answered by ~~~Buffy~~~ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋