ok fiance moves in with a female roomate?

Question

and he says the reason he did is it because she is lonely and need someone to stay with her what do u think

hes telling me he can come see me in june for a couple of days

ok this is what he is telling me : quote if you want to see me soon you need to stay with me there for a week and we go somewhere else or you can wait till next semester may-june and i will come see you for a few days

Answer 1

I would tell her to find another female roommate and to leave your fiance alone.

Answer 2

LOL, giggle. Ok ladies, here's the scoop. It does happen, it is normal, and it is pheromonal. Here's the funny part though. The dominant female in the house leads the pack. The other girls, the subs, will move their periods more towards the "maternal" stronger, leader of the pack, then she will towards everyone else. To sit back and watch this happen, if one is really paying attention to it is a strange thing. Sometimes, those that try and "act or act out" as being the dominant one, doesn't necessarily make her that way. She may in fact try and act as though she runs the pact, but she may secretly respect someone else's "view of life" more than the rest of the girls realize, or more than she lets on. This process begins the first week, and it is pheromones. These are unconscience autonomic body responses that for the most part....you can't control. The nose knows. It's even stronger than the reason you have periods on a monthly cycle, which goes back to the hunter/gatherer days when the men would go out on hunting excursions for 3 weeks at a time, then be home for a week to share the meat with the families and the tribe.

Answer 3

HELL NOOOO
I would be flippin out that is pushing it, there is no way ... Well if she is ugly and smells I could see that being ok but if she is a threat I would be like ummm Dont think so buddy! Your fiance should be living with you or staying somewhere with another guy! I would sit down in a polite way and tell him without getting to jelous infrontof him and let him know that you do not agree with this and see if he is willing to relocate where he will be staying other wise it will effect your relationship! Good Luck

Answer 4

You were just saying (2 hours BEFORE you asked this) that your fiance wanted you to move in with him and his roommate (the female) Now your concerned that he is moving in with a female? You do realize that we can see all the questions you have asked... right?

Answer 5

How many lonely women are out there that your fiance feels obligated to???????

I see ads in the newspaper all the time for people that need room mates. I can see the stamp on your forhead! Would you like to buy a bridge????

Answer 6

My god if my man did that I would go mad. It's human nature to get upset by it. I would not agree to it and ask him how would he feel if you had a lonely male Friend who wanted to share a flat with you? He will soon get the picture. I know trust is important but common sense is important too!

Answer 7

Not cool at all. You should really see this as a sign. I'm not trying to say don't marry him, but I question his reasoning skills and ability to understand how his actions might make you feel.

Answer 8

No offense, but are you kidding??? This is a no-brainer, especially because of his lame excuse. I am not that cynical, but I do know when there is opportunity, things can happen. sorry to be such a downer.

Answer 9

It does sound like a bs line becuase you are ENGAGED and he should not be so quick to put another women's needs first....

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Answer 10

So wrong!!! Why he didn't find a male roommate? This sounds weird to me. Personally I wouldn't have a male roommate, and I think my BF wouldn't think is right either.
This is all BS!!!!