2007-04-15 03:27:38 · 23 answers · asked by suresh g 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
These questions make me laugh, you should have thought about that before you got her up the duff.
Maybe you should study contraception.
2007-04-15 03:31:10 · answer #1 · answered by looby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because a woman misses a period do not assume right away that she is pregnant. Lot's of women miss period's all the time. and some women for months or even years will stop having period's then for no reason at all start again. Look for other signs, sickness in a morning, putting on the pounds and fancying different foods, some of these can be quite bizarre. My wife wanted me to go and get her a walnut whip.. Ok you may think but 2am in the morning not funny, cravings can be just as serious as a friend of mines wife actually went out in her night dress to a local 24 hour petrol station to by a bag of crisps. The next day she could not even remember going out of the house. It was a good job the petrol station was only a few yards down the road. Hope this has helped a little.
2007-04-15 03:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by coofooman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi suresh,
I don't mean to sound unkind but it nearly sounds like, if she's pregnant then it's her fault....which i am sure you know it isn't.. it takes two to make a baby. If you rare both studying in higher ed then i think its possible that you both don't want to be pregnant...remember that it actually will effect her education more than yours...it's the unfair part of nature.
I don't agree with abortion but you have options. Many people fall pregnant when they least want it and it turns out to be the best thing ever! I hope everything happens for a reason. If the only reasn you feel having a child is that it will interupt your education, then don't because it can be worked around...yes it will be more awkward but it can be done.
Aslo don't freak out too much, many women's periods can be late and if she is under stress this can cause her period to be late....periods can be irregular at times, they are never a certainity..so don't jump to conclusions...take a test.
best of luck
x
2007-04-15 04:45:11 · answer #3 · answered by SH2007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a matter of "need" if she's pregnant. Why get worked up until you know for sure?
If she is you two need to discuss termination or giving it up for adoption, as possible alternatives. If she prefers to keep it, then that's the way it will be...you will be a father whether you feel you "need" it or not, and whether you two stay married or not.
Sorry for the bad timing, but it is one of the risks we take when we choose to be sexually active people.
And DEFINITELY make use of spell check (it's suggested by Answers when you post a question). How did you get into higher education, when lower education obviously failed you? English (which includes spelling) is a required subject in this country for all kids from grade school through high school.
2007-04-15 03:40:47 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OH GROW UP!! You decided to have sex with her didn't you, that's the chance you take when you have sex! You don't need her to be pregnant well what about her! I am positive she won't need the weight gain or hours and hours of labor. This is just one of life's little curve balls, you need to be a man and take responsibility for your actions. Babies are allot of work but are also a very BIG BLESSING! There are teenagers who get through high school with children so I highly doubt you will have any problems! If they can you can!
It is okay by the way to be scared, lots of men get freaked out when pregnancy becomes an issue in their life, just relax and take things one step at a time and everything will fall into place.
2007-04-18 19:52:18 · answer #5 · answered by peaches&cream 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a pregnancy test and find out. I know from experience that pregnancy can happen at the worst times but its something you just have to deal with, If you are thinking about abortion please stop and think about all the couples out there that can not have children and would love to adopt. If your wife is not pregnant use some form of birth control until you are ready for a baby!
2007-04-19 02:56:17 · answer #6 · answered by nisey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should have been more careful. Sure you know that.
Regardless if she is pregnant or not you need to be more careful in the future.
Whats done is done, you need to be responsible and deal with the current situation and support your wife. She may be scared.
If she is not pregnant, look into how you can prevent this situation in the future.
It is your responsibitity too.
You think you don't need it? She is the one who will have to carry the baby and give birth, think of her!
2007-04-19 00:45:44 · answer #7 · answered by uk.housewife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you talk to her, before you talk to us. It takes two to get pregnant. My friend is not married, but was going out with a fellow, she got pregnant, and now he doesn't want it. I blame both, just like in your case, you both needed protection. Now you are probably going to kill a little baby because you both did not think what could happen when you have unprotected sex. I would be studying about sex instead of whatever else you are both studying. Shame on you...BOTH!!!!!!!
2007-04-15 03:41:50 · answer #8 · answered by Boricua Born 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jeez! Get a pregnancy test or just go to the dr.! Just bcoz you don't need it doesn't mean she doesn't want it. Have you discussed this with her? I suggest you do so. There are numerous options at this point, .........if you and she are pregnant. ;-)
You say you're educated...nothing to do with biology or the life sciences, I hope.
2007-04-15 07:51:51 · answer #9 · answered by ~RedBird~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how does your wife truly feel about this ? you need to communicate and decide what is best. do not worry i felt the same -that my world and my life had ended but after getting into a routine and working around my daughter we are doing ace and we are both doing what we did before she came along
2007-04-15 09:06:20 · answer #10 · answered by rachael w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋