2007-04-15 03:19:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
marraige lenght an the ability to lie well about anything seem to go hand in hand....but it is Gods institution
2007-04-15 03:20:45 · update #1
That's a good point. It seems like both cheat all of the time now days. I don't understand it... Why even both getting married?
2007-04-15 03:23:00 · answer #1 · answered by engineer46526 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
"No one is faithful anymore" is a pretty Strong statement with no facts to back it up. You must have been hurt rather badly by someone who was unfaithful. You need to address your relationship fears or you will never find a rewarding relationship. Why do I believe my spouse is faithful? We work together, drive together and do everything together. We are together 24/7 with very few exceptions. Even if we did spend more time apart we are not the sex crazed creatures that you seem to describe. Some of us don't base life on sexual accomplishments.
2007-04-15 10:49:50 · answer #2 · answered by Mike M. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry your spouse has been unfaithful. Mine has not. I have not. It seems that you have just chosen the wrong wife or husband. That will not change. Not everyone cheats eventhough it will make you feel better to think that everyone lives in chaos. If your spouse is unfaithful, then you need to divorce. You deserve to be married to a person that loves you, spends time with you and is your friend. At any age, you can start over. Life is short. Don't spend it listening to a cheater's lies.
2007-04-15 10:35:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who hurt you so badly that you're turned of to the rest of humanity? They've really messed you up. Anytime someone says "Everyone is doing it", or "Everyone has one", you know right off that this just isn't true. The same goes for "Everyone cheats". If you've lost your ability to trust, you're in a lifestyle that promotes distrust, and adultery. You need to leave whatever lifestyle you're in and find a completely different life. One where people live honorably together, love one another, and trust one another. I'm not necessarily saying go to church, but whatever you have now is screwing you up, and a major change is what you need.
2007-04-15 12:46:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to find faithful spouse nowadays but it just doesn't mean that there isn't any. Do grab hold of your spouse tightly and never let go If you are the lucky one who ever come across one. Gratitude & Appreciation are the key words to a happy lifelong marriage.
2007-04-15 10:42:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There r faithful spouses out there. I was one. if you r in love w/ your spouse you do not cheat.... If you cheat you know its better to come clean than lie. Something eles is truely wrong in the marriage if you have an affair . There is No respect w/ cheating & w/o respect you do not have anything......
2007-04-15 10:56:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very faithful and I still get accused of cheating. I know how it feels to get cheated on and its not a good feeling. And then the trust is over your always wondering if they're out with another women or god only knows. Even if they're at work you wondering if they're sleeping with someone there.
2007-04-15 10:32:16 · answer #7 · answered by shagkitten_82 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
for 20 years I believed my husband was faithful...but he wasn't.
I still have no proof after the divorce....but God give us brains we are to use them....he worked every weekend and until sometimes 7 pm at night. After the divorce he NEVER worked passed 3pm. And was off every week end....he owns the comp.
If a man is not home 30 minutes after he gets off work something is wrong.....if he goes out with the boys...something is wrong...if he holds money from you something is wrong.
My ex husband was very smart...he cheated in the morning and weekends in broad daylight.
If down in your heart you even feel an inkling of something wrong...there IS.
I will never get married again..because I really think they ALL cheat...in this day and age....if they don't now...they will...just give them time.
My husband was active in church too....he knew that was important to me....but he used that very thing against me.
But..I know ultimately the truth shall prevail.
2007-04-15 10:42:47 · answer #8 · answered by Bobbie4u 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
This is not a true statement. I am completely faithful whether I am in a committed relationship or married to someone.
2007-04-15 10:24:31 · answer #9 · answered by Challenge 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry got to disagree, I've been with my spouse for 19yrs and we are totally faithful. I'll tell you why, he can't afford a divorce and that's what he'd get. Oh yeah and he wants to keep his genitals.
2007-04-15 10:23:52 · answer #10 · answered by Vondawoman 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Married 12 years and faithful. Depends who your with I'd guess.
2007-04-15 10:23:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋