It used to be purely physical and that got me into a lot of trouble because I would wind up with guys that knew they were good looking and would make me feel like I didn't deserve them or I wasn't pretty enough to be with them.
When I met my husband, he's not BAD looking, just not the type of guy I usually dated. Something about him made me feel safe, though. And beautiful. And all this time later he still does.
2007-04-15 03:05:56
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answer #1
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answered by RING GIRL II 4
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The physical appearence is secondary.... it's the way they act first, then i start checking out the physical after if it's a man that is.
2007-04-15 10:07:09
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answered by Anonymous
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How they act. The only thing which counts about physical appearance is the eyes, because they are the windows to your soul.
2007-04-15 10:06:54
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answered by Amelie 6
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Before you meet somone may i surgest that you take some time out and just discover as to who you are, Think about just where you want to go , and what yo really need .So what am i saying to you .i think that one can discover more about yourself as to your physical appearance ,this way you will observe and your views plus your responses to. then you can think about the way as to the way the person will react to you. It might be a good idea to trust your own intruition as to the way the person will react to you . good luck
2007-04-15 10:35:17
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answered by Tranquilty 5
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Mostly the way they act towards me, but I do notice appearance too!
2007-04-15 10:05:30
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answered by Anonymous
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The way they act. They can be the most physically attractive person in the world but if they are brain dead I don't want to be around them.
2007-04-15 10:06:15
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answered by Anonymous
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The way they act, I can tell more about someone by their behavior than by their appearance.
2007-04-15 10:07:35
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answered by Anonymous
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First impressions always count, but I do concentrate on how they act towards me. You can get nice and nasty hot and ugly people!
2007-04-15 10:09:49
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answered by Helena 6
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I concentrate on both as that and the other can help you to understand that person.
2007-04-15 10:05:17
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answered by 1000_pieces_of_my_shatered_soul. 1
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I concentrate on the sincerity in their eyes. Looks are superficial, it's the heart that counts.
2007-04-15 10:04:56
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answered by PariahMaterial 6
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