ok i need oppinons please?

Question

my fiance wants me to move in with him and his female roomate what should i do ....to tell you the truth i think it might be some drama

this is the roomate's apartment

i suggest we him and i get a place of our own but he keeps procrastinating

Answer 1

It depends on the personalities of the 3 of you. If you and his roommate don't get along then there may be some drama. But if you two get along and she has her life and stays out of your business than you should be fine.

Have you asked him about the two of you getting a place together and giving her notice that he's moving out? Or is this a plan to save money rent split 3 ways?

Answer 2

Then you should trust your instinct. Maybe suggest that you 2 get a place of your own and the roomate will have to find another roomate. If he don't like that idea then you know something is up.

Answer 3

Here we go with the HAREM situation again.
If you want to be a part of one, by all means go. If you don't then tell him NO. Two women in a house and one man is the recipe for HELL. She will think that she has the last say so over anything because she was there first and you will think that your opinion counts because you are the fiance, and he will opt out of taking any sides because he is a coward and secretly enjoying the fighting over him.

Answer 4

If you get along with the female roomate then there shouldnt be a problem? But if you dont its going to 'cause problems. If you've not met her then i still think its gonna be a little weird.

Answer 5

Tell him ... he needs a new roommate... and you would like to apply for the position... if the house...apt... he lives in were 20 000 square feet there wouldn't be enough room for the three of you. This isn't about accomodations... it's about choosing to create a life together... and YOU are absolutely right... if you move in you best book your flight to Jerry Springer central because absolutely that's where this would be headed...

at this stage of the game (betrothed) there shouldn't be any ... I mean any... other women in this guys life... besides you his mom and your mom... (unless of course your mom.. is...uh... welll errr..y'know... kinda... ummmm "skanky") Hey... all I'm saying is... If you're going to build a life together... buil;d it fresh... from the ground up... tell him she's excess "baggage" and you would like to start without that...

Vis a vis... How would he feel about moving in with you and another guy...

Answer 6

I think it would cause a lot of drama too. But I think if drama hasn't already been caused by him living with a female maybe you are better able to handle situations that most people couldn't. I say do it on a trial basis (don't give up your current living situation completely) and see what happens.

Answer 7

Sounds to me like he will be in heaven but can you get along with the room mate sounds like a show on TV 3s company allot of drama : ). I say loose the room mate and you move in like the old saying 2s company threes a crowd. Unless of coarse you like a crowd

Answer 8

Please don't move in with your fiance and his roomate!! You and him should get a place of your own. Tell your fiance you like living by your own rules.

Answer 9

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Answer 10

if you dont feel comfortable with the female roomate. Just tell him!! Im sure he would want you to be honest with him then keep it all inside and be miserable!